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Forest Cat
Forest Cat
I think it's best to just jump head first into these things. My personal record is 6 days. :) 6 days from we met until we rented an apartment and moved in together. But I think I can be even faster. :D
Raggamuffin
Raggamuffin
Just go with your gut.
Outdated
Outdated
With me there was never any discussion, just after a few months I noticed that they never went home any more.
Rodafina
Rodafina
It sounds like you already have a solid foundation for making it successful. For me too, it was usually pretty quick, because it just makes more sense to me that way. Might as well get to know someone all the way… As long as you have a little bit of space to yourself now and then.
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Luca
All good bits of advice, thanks everyone. I’ve never been in a relationship before, never mind a serious relationship, so this is all very new to me.
Rodafina
Rodafina
No prior experience in a relationship can be a valuable thing… You don’t have to base your decisions on past hurts. Just believe in communication and resilience, which I know you have in abundance, and I think you will be fine.
Aspychata
Aspychata
Clear out of the way what you don't tolerate, any little things, like dirty dishes, clothes on the floor. Pick one day a month to sit down and discuss the great, and any issues, check in with each other, and set a date nite perhaps. And if you argue, discuss not argue to argue past a day.
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