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Luca
When I visit her at the end of the day, she is usually already getting ready for bed, but I don't want to sleep over there because there's a bit of an age gap between us and her mom is still very involved. They are also from a different country and culture where it's normal to still live with your mother in your 20s and possibly beyond (she's 23)
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Luca
I also don't want to move too quickly. I have literally never been in a relationship before but the advice I was given when I was younger was that you shouldn't move in with someone until it's been at least a year (obviously) but I don't know what the parameters are for sleepovers, especially since I live alone in my own home.
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Slime_Punk
I usually wait a week, but everyone is different on that most likely
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Luca
It’s been more than a week so maybe I should try tomorrow or something
Atrapa Almas
Atrapa Almas
You should just ask your loved one. Also, in case a trigger may apear try to have a good talk about what you two espect from that experience, so it will be good for both of you.
UberScout
UberScout
Just be honest about the way you feel about it and ask her if she would be comfortable with it
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Owliet
I don’t know. I mean you’ve only known each other for a short time. Maybe talk about it with her and see what’s the best arrangement. Some people like to do this really fast and others like to take their time.
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Just invite her over for a meal and a movie and see what happens.
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