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How polite are you? Can you describe with an example or two ?
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
Sitting there with a smile but ignored.
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You expect other people to make the effort.
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Matthias
Men are usually expected to make the first move so single women might feel like you're ignoring them because you think they're not good enough for you.
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It may be that people who see you "sitting there with a smile" figure
you're quite satisfied to just sit there.
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
Don't get me started on men who makes the first move. I thought Church girls were different but there are the same snobs as everyone else.
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What do you imagine they are thinking about a guy who just sits there and smiles?
That behavior could be perceived as being snobbish.
Like *I'm just too good to bother with the likes of you. I'd rather sit here alone.*
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