Only parents and us. No wedding dress no decorations, No guests. No cake. Weird weird weird. And normally, we have a LOT of traditions.
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AprilR
Forest Cat
No cake? And no wedding dress? Are you sure it was a wedding? 
AprilR
No wedding rings either. It was weird even by my standards.
Forest Cat
So no wedding dress, no cake, no decorations, no rings, no guests. Do these people know they are married now?
Stuttermabolur
When my father got married, it was him and his wife going to a wedding office out of the blue to sign some papers. They didn't even tell anyone. I didn't know he was married till he showed me his ring.
Forest Cat
I was almost married years ago, we had the rings but it didn't work out unfortunately but I still hope I will be married some day. And if I am, the wedding and the party will be so big the newspapers will write about it. Roads will be blocked, the music will be heard miles away, people will call the police to complain about it and it will last for days. There will be cake and rings for sure.
Roads will be blocked, the music will be heard miles away, people will call the police to complain about it and it will last for days. There will be cake and rings for sure.
Aspychata
My marriage was on the beach. It was pretty. Then we drove on the street by the beach in a limo and drank champagne. We stopped at fancy hotel and had a small catered dinner.
AprilR
I mostly felt awkward because i was dressed up for the occasion and the "bride" was wearing jeans lol
Aspychata
I guess the invite didn't specify casual. It's nice that weddings are more relaxed. I didn't know people still got married. Lol
AprilR
There.. Wasn't a formal invitation either just a text message lol
It was my cousin that got married who is probably on the spectrum herself. But i don't think she was unaware of the formalities, Just didn't care.
It was my cousin that got married who is probably on the spectrum herself. But i don't think she was unaware of the formalities, Just didn't care.
Shaddock
here in germany there are 2 possible marriages. the civil marriage, that is just that you go to an agency and it´s not romantic or something like that. then there is the churchly marriage, with all the "formalitities." I think it´s okay when a couple don´t want to marry or when they make an unconventional marriage. it´s their marriage,
Shaddock
they could and should do it how they both want it, disregarding others. noone has to accept the invitation, when he/she not wants to. I think the most important is that the couple is happy. but that´s only my opinion. everyone can make it different on their own marriage. I myself hate to have jewelry like clocks or rings on my body.
Shaddock
because it feels uncomfortable for me. I wouldn´t even want to wear a wedding ring nor even marry. also I don´t need to show or proof others my love to my girlfriend (when I would had one), because it´s of noones business, except me and this girlfriend.
AprilR
True. Here there are lots of traditions that go with marriage ceremonies so i guess i was surprised.