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Asperger's & Autism Forum

Gerontius
Gerontius
Going to ask:
On this forum, have you presented yourself in an attractive manner? Not really. I have begun to suspect that if you were, say, on here as a different person--with a whole different way of posting that doesn't alarm people (folks often feel sorry for you but it's like watching a guy die in a volcano, they think they can't actually do anything to help you & can't get close enough to pull you out) --
Gerontius
Gerontius
-- I think if you were to present yourself differently you would probably pull a date.
Wouldn't recommend Discord, though, for meeting people. Folks don't go to these kinds of places to date necessarily. And if you're as much into woe-is-me on there as you are here--you're definitely using the wrong bait for your fishing.
tree
tree
@Markness Au contraire. I believe you have *met* people. The results haven't been such that the meetings evolved into lasting friendships.
Gerontius
Gerontius
Tree is technically correct.
I know we have talked some by PM. I know I'm really bad at sending replies. Some of your PM's came at a time I was trying to not get murdered, by the guy who attempted to break the door and murder me in my apartment. Other times I've been drained.
I still say that you might do better by going out & learning strategy. Hit up some of the frugal websites out there, learn that way of life.
Gerontius
Gerontius
Also for heaven's sake, you have people here who like you & hope the best for you--Share your dating profile in here (not the sites thank you) and get some proofreading. Ask questions other than those with a doom-note of finality. Find random BS fun stuff about your day and share it--Maybe you saw a book cover with good design, or some interesting birds.
Gerontius
Gerontius
You will never come into your own if you do not do something interesting. Even if you aren't the best at it, have fun. I'm not the best at anything I do: I'm an incompetent horseman, a poor excuse for a rifle shot, a happy bodge-jobber with restoring antiques, and a third-rate writer. But I love doing all that stuff.
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