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Luca
If anyone from my irl life has followed me onto here, let me tell you right now, you are not gonna win this time.
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
I think you are in need of a Dog V4 hug. His motives are clear... he wants some of what you're eating!
Aspychata
Aspychata
So sorry to read this. Just remember us who have been here. I too am very distrustful to the point l don't socialize much. I have friend who is okay 97.8% of the time but sometimes she can get weird which makes wonder if l should ditch her. I turned down her invite.
Callistemon
Callistemon
I suspect we all get weird sometimes; it's just whether the non-weird times make up for it? Like the saying goes, sanity is how well we fit in with the insanities around us. ;)
Callistemon
Callistemon
Sorry you feel this way, @crewlucaa_. I'm sure if I had a TARDIS and came to visit you with my dog, we'd get on. I guess I have the benefit of so many positive experiences with people, but that wasn't always the case and I understand how bad that feels. And some people, bleh.

Big hug sent your way too, and @Aspychata's (I think this is called a cross-hemisphere air hug!)
Atrapa Almas
Atrapa Almas
Being highly suspicious of everybody arround to avoid being cheated is worse than being cheated from time to time.

So after you take some basic protective actions, I recomend you to be kind with yourself and allow others to cheat on you as that is part of life.

Just try that other people personal benefit never collide with yours very much. Hugs.
Loren
Loren
I experienced this, for a few months, after initially joining the forum, as the result of some past life-experiences and pretty extreme PTSD at the time. The fear/ worry/ hyper vigilance, eventually, subsided, over time. Only, rarely, do I experience this, here, now, but, I think I might understand how you are feeling/ what you are experiencing.
Loren
Loren
...also, I think the environment/vibe, here, has changed, somewhat, of late, and it's hard when people we've grown fond of/ connected with, disappear, unexpectedly, for significant periods of time, and all of this can add to the distress being felt, with regard to the subject at hand. Wishing you much peace of mind and happiness, Luca.
Aspychata
Aspychata
@Loren is so right. We get use to the flavor of the regulars and then new peeps enter and the tribe feeling of support flounders.
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