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tree
So you're feeling deprived because it wasn't you doing the impregnating?
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Owliet
Yeah but just think, she’ll have to look after a crying small melon sized individual. Joking aside, Don’t compare yourself to others, we are all on different paths.
Markness
Markness
@tree It’s another reminder that I most likely will never have children of my own.
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Luca
I’m actually terrified of getting pregnant.
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Owliet
Not that it will likely happen to me but yes, same. Even more afraid of being a mom.
Markness
Markness
@Owliet It’s hard for me not to compare myself when my siblings keep excelling at life while I don’t.
tree
tree
How much are you actually trying not to keep telling yourself this same story, over and over? I don't mean "pretend everything's great/pretend to be happy ." I mean stop telling yourself stories with sad endings.
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Owliet
My sibling is doing way better than I am right now. She even has a successful relationship whilst I’m not. I’m pretty sure that I just came on too ....eager and have realized that right now I need to chill out and go back to the drawing board just now. So I messed that up. But I have a degree, three actually whilst my sister doesn’t.
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Owliet
What I mean here is that we must measure ourselves by our own merits and failures and with the failures realize that we have stuff to try to work on to improve. Don’t hide behind excuses. Because Only you can fix them.
Aspychata
Aspychata
You maybe can feel happy for her. Like tree says change the ending. Life changes everyday. You story will change but don't give up.
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