You know, it may be more that people grow weary of seeing/hearing you repeat this refrain. *nobody wants me to have a girlfriend.* I don't think anybody here is against you having one. But I have seen frustration with the fact that you keep saying they are against that happening.
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Aspychata
Tree has a point. We can't wait until you come back and tell us you have a friend and you are working on *girl* friend status. You start out as friends first.
oregano
@Aspychata has a point, that's how it's done here in northern California. You make a friend, get to know each other, THEN ask her on a "date". As I've noted, simply going up to random women and asking them out is an insult here, so it hardly ever happens. Maybe you could find a comics store and join a card league, or maybe find a group of fellow anime lovers?
Aspychata
Take some of that time focused on others and use it to start approaching woman. Say hi- what's your name. See if you can get 2 names every day.
Aspychata
Then start giving 2 compliments everyday for a month.
Aspychata
Third month start asking woman what do you do for fun? This helps finding someone with similar interests. It's work, but you may meet a really great person like yourself.