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BlueConundrum

BlueConundrum

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  • BlueConundrum
    I had a post deleted for calling out bullying and poor/dangerous logic because apparently that's "political."
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    BlueConundrum
    BlueConundrum
    Putting words in my mouth regarding a tangential issue that I never mentioned is far from "doing his job,” but I promise that after today if a mod exhibits poor reading comprehension, ignores bullying, or lies about me, I'll take it up with them privately.

    You just provided a textbook example of a straw man argument. If you’re going to disagree with me, at least disagree with things I actually said or did.
    BlueConundrum
    BlueConundrum
    I was sarcastic and not terribly nice because multiple people were rude and inappropriate. If you want to warn me about being rude to rude people, go ahead. I wasn't a ray of sunshine. But that's not what the criticism was. I never thought that I was stating anything profound or "amazing." I pointed out fallacies in one of a few posts designed to badger the OP.
    Ste11aeres
    Ste11aeres
    Per posting guideline # 9." Issues related to moderators and how we moderate should be handled privately with an Admin"
    BlueConundrum
    I'm not doing well, to be honest. No light at the end of this tunnel.
    M
    Mia
    Sorry to hear that Blue, that things are difficult. ;)
    Spiller
    Spiller
    If you're patient the light alway appears, sometimes it just takes a while.. honest! :)
    hiraeth
    hiraeth
    *hugs*
    Aspergirl4hire
    Happy birthday, BlueConundrum! Hope your new therapist is more ASD-aware...and can give you more help with the gift you (and almost all of the rest of us) also have. :-)
    BlueConundrum
    I've been slowly introducing the idea of a proper diagnosis with my therapist. Any tips appreciated! I'm having trouble asking directly.
    tree
    tree
    Do you have results printed out from 'tests'/assessments you have done on-line?
    BlueConundrum
    BlueConundrum
    I don't! I should bring that. It turns out that my therapist is quitting and I have to start over with a new one so I'll do that when I start. My current therapist is quitting in less than two weeks so it might not be worth it. I'll try to bring it up again tomorrow. Thanks!
    hiraeth
    Arrrrgh there needs to be a "relate" rating for posts.
    BlueConundrum
    BlueConundrum
    Ha! I always interpret "Like" as "Relate" or even just "I read this and am thinking about it." It makes things easier! :D
    hiraeth
    hiraeth
    I associate "like" with "cool", I suppose because my primary association with "like" is how it's used and implemented on Facebook. I think I put "agree" for that particular post? I don't even remember actually. I might have put "friendly". Too bad I can't "like" comments. x)
    qwerty
    qwerty
    Yeah, this has always frustrated me too. I use the heart, friendly one. I think a lot of people do to convey empathy and relating :)
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