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Recent content by VJCJ0628

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    Has anyone here overcome difficulties with social perceptions?

    I have got a lot better at this over time, I am not perfect at it I do miss things sometimes, However, I can pick up on some things like if a person (if it's not their normal demeanor) is fidgety or looks away could be hiding something or lying, or uninterested depending on the conversation...
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    What song are you listening to right now?

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    I cut my mother out of my life officially two days ago. Uncertain about things (Advice)

    She sounds very abusive, I am sorry for you, You may need some time away to get yourself centered on your own opinion, not hers, You might benefit from therapy
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    Any classic 70s or 80s rock fans here?

    I like many of the bands mentioned all ready to add a few more trying not to repeat Allman Brothers lynyrd skynyrd Blind faith Steely Dan Robin tower Traffic Eirc Clapton Beatles Rolling Stones Doors Fleetwood mac Creedence Clearwood revival The police As far as the 80"s I like various songs...
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    Employer insurance does not cover ABA Therapy, what should I do now?

    Thank you, I had started to suspect or at least hoped this to be true thank you for confirming
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    Employer insurance does not cover ABA Therapy, what should I do now?

    I would agree with most everything you have said, Especially I don't see ABA for people that do not have language difficulties as if they understand the language they can be taught through words and actions, I will say you have had a lot of red flags, I have not run into that with ABA and I am...
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    Always been angry and resentful of my dad

    That I do agree with there is always a process and one must go through the emotion in order to process, I don't know if NT's do But I know I do Also I meant to put the word not in my first sentence in the other post I corrected now meaning I could Not have done difrently
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    Always been angry and resentful of my dad

    I both agree and disagree, 1 on the agree side, my father was tough on me, and I agree I went through a time of anger and could not have done differently 2 on the disagree side, I now have children, and do the best I can to provide the direction and path that they need for life as a father...
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    Handwriting issues

    yes I think this was it dysgraphia
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    Handwriting issues

    I have horrible handwriting, I mean by far the worst, I have ever seen, When I came upon my discovery about my Aspergers early this year, I came across some information about a comorbid condition I believe I have, I can't find it now and I forget what it was called specifically but I do remember...
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    Aspergers in your family,

    No one really knew about Aspergers when I was young, I only found out about mine when researching symptoms in my 8 year old son All I know is I have it my son has Aspergers and my 4-year-old has autism and is just starting to speak My father has some traits if he has it, It would be to a...
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    Employer insurance does not cover ABA Therapy, what should I do now?

    I am not ignoring but my wife goes in and watched and is a part of I have been in a watch, I don't see what you say actually happening in the lesson at all I don't see them teaching as you say at all it is not happening at all where I go I never ever ever ever seen them do anything that has a...
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    Employer insurance does not cover ABA Therapy, what should I do now?

    What I don't understand and what is very frustrating is you keep making as its an either or like as if you can't have improvement and have educated the public as if they are in conflict when in fact it is not. Also, how can one just complaining about not being able to do things or have issues...
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    Always been angry and resentful of my dad

    I spent a lot of years angry with my father, He was very hard on me, However in my 30's I started to soften up and realize a lot of my problems were my own making, After that when I had kids, especially a son who has many of my traits, I realized how hard it is to be a parent and he did the...
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    Employer insurance does not cover ABA Therapy, what should I do now?

    You know what I had spent some time thinking about some of the things you have said, Mainly because you say these are the prevalent thoughts of the Aspie community and not just your opinion. I have had a hard time because it does not make sense, You say you should not work on things like eye...
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