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Recent content by Vaunderbroad

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    Aspie love, how to build a new life? This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

    Thank you!
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    Aspie love, how to build a new life? This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

    I am sure I hurt him. I am trying to stay stable and calm myself so when he is ready to talk (if ever) we can repair this and move on. I never thought about romantic jealousy being a factor. Thanks for the feedback. This is so much work. Even if it destroys me, it might have been worth it. It’s...
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    Aspie love, how to build a new life? This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

    Yes, the pastry was my attempt to speak his language of “deeds not words” probably would have been more effective if I didn’t blow up his phone. I am not sure he will ever be willing to speak to me again. I suggested counseling for us/me and showed him some options last week. I don’t have...
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    Aspie love, how to build a new life? This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

    I am in a 7 month long romantic relationship (and have AS but am a good masker and like/need people.) I met the love of my life (also AS but more classic attributes) online and moved to his city because I love him and want to build a life together. My routine used to revolve around yoga, work...
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    How To Regain Trust From Someone In The Spectrum

    Be consistent, do what you say you’re going to do, hold space for her meltdowns, be open to therapy? Don’t just say the things, do the deeds. Maybe she just needs a friend.
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