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Recent content by Vargo

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    How should I deal with a controlling mother that doesn't respect my boundaries?

    The problem is this case might not be what the mother is doing, but rather how she's doing it. Even people who mean well can be toxic.
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    How should I deal with a controlling mother that doesn't respect my boundaries?

    I agree it's risky and should be planned properly. But having time to do so might actually give some much needed hope of the future and motivation to go forward.
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    How to rebuild relationship with an aspie after shut down (I am NT)

    It seems to me that he prefers writing as a medium of communication. I would try reconnect over email and attach pictures of the baby for him to connect with. Make copies of everything for documentation. I would not threaten him or tell him what to do, but I would get a lawyer if he refuses to...
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    How should I deal with a controlling mother that doesn't respect my boundaries?

    It's OK to cut contact with toxic family members. My wife considers her biological mother dead after becoming an alcoholic, thief and cheater who abandoned her two daughters under the age of 12. And even though she's tried to contact us, the only contact we've allowed was at my father in law's...
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    Do I have autism? +Introduction

    Hello, you may call me Vargo. I'm male, 39 years old and I live in Germany. I'm married, no children and I build customized heating systems as a living. I used to work as a plumber, but now I work in a factory with set work hours and less contact with people. I have struggled with depression for...
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