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Recent content by Vagner

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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    You're right, it makes perfect sense. Yes, indeed. As I said, I wasn't aware at the time he was aspie, so instead of being understanding, I was mostly resentful. For us, it's pretty evident. And that's what I don't quite get. Why was everything so easy in the beginning? Everything flowed...
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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    That's what I tried last Sunday. I told him everything I was feeling and he told me about feeling pressured etc and I said that I don't wanna be that person bringing more pressure to his life, he's got enough from work and academic life. He's making up his mind now if it's worth it or not to...
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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    He complains everyday about working too much and being stressed a lot. He doesn't work on the weekends, tho. We only see each other on the weekends, and we basically got into a routine. We go out, we drink, have some fun and then here we go again, another week. And there's never a time for us in...
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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    Oh, hi! Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, so many great insights, omg! Yes, you're right, I'm a guy too! That's pretty much it. In the first months it was never a problem to us, since we were pretty affectionate even in public. But as time went by, he started complaining and...
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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    Hi, Mary Anne! Thank you so much for your time. I'm sorry I didn't make it clear enough, I'm a male too. And I know for sure that he's 100% faithful to me. The problem is that those things that I mentioned started to fade to a point where it's non existent. :/
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    NT trying to understand aspie bf

    Hi, guys. First off, I'd like to thank you for taking your time reading this and trying to help me, it means a lot. I'm new here, and I'm Brazilian, so English is not my 1st language, so please, be patient with me. A little background. I've been in a relationship with my aspie bf for almost a...
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