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    i am here for aspie dating help

    oh and he knows she ghosted him, one of his favorite music playlists he plays over and over are songs about being ghosted, about the lover not saying goodbye. i dont know why she ghosted him but it happened soon after she returned a large concrete garden gnome (gnomes are one of his special...
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    I actually may be aspie too i dunno, but I am for sure not alexithymic style like he is. I didnt care that he didnt cre how i looked until I saw him behave crazy excited for women that sexually aroused him, he almost jumps up and down when he sees them. He memorizes everything about them...
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    To clarify, I asked a mutual friend about his relationship with his ex, I didn't contact his ex. Our mutual friend isn't and wasn't violent. I did ask my boyfriend if we could call his ex together and that made him cry so I told him I didnt want to do that. (Now I realize how I dont want to...
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    i am here for aspie dating help

    Thanks! Yes, the unifying attribute across these disorders is alexithymia; a mind blindness where the individual can't understand emotionally themselves nor the other person. But anger is an easy accessible catch all emotion for them somehow.
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    i am here for aspie dating help

    i can't tell what comment would make u think i am trolling? u must have misunderstood me. whatever, i am grateful for the feedback the forum has given me
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    i am here for aspie dating help

    thank you! i thought about this, like if she ever even contacted him would i be dumped? even having those thoughts i guess makes it obvious i should leave him. but it is hard meeting new people and i like sharing living space with him. i just cant accept the romantic relationship part, it...
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    i did ask him later after he was out of rage if we could have a 3 way call and he started crying
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    i am here for aspie dating help

    Thank you! The people on this forum are wonderful and have sincere and thoughtful feedback. there's gaslighting when someone freaks out because they have to make it like their nutso behavior didn't happen, so this forum and your reply helps me feel validated. It is hard to meet people these...
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    i am here for aspie dating help

    hi! dating aspie for 2 years. i casually asked him about someone he was following on social media; she wasn't on his friends list and didn't look like a celebrity. he filled with rage at the question and punched the wall. he yelled "dont you ever try to get inbetween us!" i found out from a...
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