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Recent content by Totallysteff

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    Comment by 'Totallysteff' in media 'Knucklehead Smiff'

    YES!!!
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    I am an extroverted Aspie in isolation

    I truly resonate with this post. Sobriety on its own can be very isolating, but add in the other stuff and it can feel unbearable. Luckily for all of us most uncomfortable situations don’t necessarily last that long. Your sponsor is likely correct, it is time to lean into it. So that you’ll be...
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    Comment by 'Totallysteff' in 'Is this the way it really is? Yep!'

    Curious how 5 1/2 years can bring so much clarity, and then none at all. Thank you Kevin1968 for liking this so that I might read it again. A very good reminder of where I came from, and how different I am, but also how far I still have to go. Life is cool! I’m choosing to see life as a ride...
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    Good Afternoon

    Yes, I’m in America. Are you ?
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    Good Afternoon

    Welcome Giant Hogweed! I’m an infj also.
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    Hello

    Hello
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    Do you ever worry people will think you're hitting on them when you're not?

    I once had a man in his late 30’s tell me he thought I was interested in him because I smiled at him.:eek:
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    I don’t have the answers, but I’m open to learn them.

    I don’t have the answers, but I’m open to learn them.
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    I a I’m on day 31, and I haven’t missed a meeting. I don’t think I’d make it without AA.
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    Fellow Oregonian, and prepper for the worst. I like what you are doing with your trailer. Your...

    Fellow Oregonian, and prepper for the worst. I like what you are doing with your trailer. Your website is very nice too.
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    Thank you!
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    For me drinking isn’t an option. I am unable to control the amount I consume. I drink a lot, and often to the point of blackout. I would love to be able to casually drink, but I am not one of those people. I’m glad to hear that you are able to do that, and that the forums are helpful to you.
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    Thank you for this. I know that what you have shared is true, but sadly not very easy. I am working at it though. I really appreciate your advice, it pulled at my heart.
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    Thank you so much! Parts of your experience really hit home with me. I really appreciate your recommendation as well.
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    I’m an Alcoholic!

    One of the ways that I have coped with my variety of different was to drink. Drinking is something I would do to help ease my nerves, and blend in. I never did manage to do either thing, but I did manage to have an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. I’m not sure why I’m posting this, except...
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