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Tony Ramirez
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Tony Ramirez

Agnostic Christian with Asperger's Syndrome, Male, 44, from Brooklyn, NY

Why am I so unapproachable to women except for couples and some guys? Nov 6, 2021

Tony Ramirez was last seen:
Dec 1, 2021 at 6:51 PM
    1. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Why am I so unapproachable to women except for couples and some guys?
    2. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      I wish couples would ignore me like single do and single girls talk to me.
    3. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      I wish couples would ignore me like single girls do.
    4. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      I walked to Prospect Park which was brutal just to be surrounded with two girls I know single by choice and plenty of couples with kids.
    5. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Hanging with couples is like flies buzzing around my head or cars that turn during walk crosswalks.
      1. Raggamuffin
        Raggamuffin
        Once the honeymoon period of a relationship is over - most people are just as miserable as everyone else. And dating someone can double the things you worry about too.
        Oct 26, 2021
      2. tree
        tree
        @Tony Ramirez What about when you are in a group of all single people? Or with just one person?
        Oct 26, 2021
      3. Tony Ramirez
        Tony Ramirez
        The only group of singles are all guys which irrelevant as I joined an Coed groups.
        Oct 26, 2021
    6. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Church Park hang was a waste of time. All that attended were couples and a girl single by choice I already knew.
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      2. tree
        tree
        From what you say, it really seems that you don't enjoy being around people.
        Oct 24, 2021
      3. Tony Ramirez
        Tony Ramirez
        No just couples.
        Oct 24, 2021
      4. tree
        tree
        "Couples" are people, too.
        Oct 24, 2021
    7. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Many flaked did not bother to show up for tonight's life group.
    8. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      All that greeted me yesterday at Church was couples again. Topical
      1. Yeshuasdaughter
        Yeshuasdaughter
        Well then be happy for the love they found. Because you know that it's so hard to find, and so rare. Paul said that there is no shame in singleness. If what you're looking for is a Christian woman, then maybe by being a friend to everyone, the single women at church will notice you.
        Oct 12, 2021
    9. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Lifegroup yesterday was a waste of time and energy walking. There were couples rubbing in my face their happiness and the rest guys no girls
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      2. tree
        tree
        So as church brothers and sisters. Not a dating encounter.
        Oct 7, 2021
      3. Tony Ramirez
        Tony Ramirez
        Yet people including the one that leads the group meet there spouse at that Church. Yet all I meet or talk to me are couples and single guys.
        Oct 7, 2021
      4. tree
        tree
        It may happen that some people meet and are a match. At this point in your life, that has not happened.
        Oct 7, 2021
    10. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Tired of only girls who are married or I already know the only ones who talk to me.
      1. tree
        tree
        Seems like, in general, you don't enjoy people much.
        Aug 28, 2021
      2. Tony Ramirez
        Tony Ramirez
        I don't hate people I am just tired of the same type of people only talking too me.
        Aug 30, 2021
      3. tree
        tree
        You're the same kind of you, all the time, though. So why should you expect anything to be different?
        Sep 24, 2021
    11. Tony Ramirez
      Tony Ramirez
      Tired of all guys and couples at life group.
    12. Gift2humanity
      Gift2humanity
      I'm only a humble Aspie, I have been close to suicide, life has felt painful, I'm 54 now, and realising that life is finally getting better. I hope my posts can help you. God exists whether we believe or not, I am not religious, God is still there, my faith keeps me going.
    13. Crossbreed
      Crossbreed
      Your avatar photo looks a lot more positive!
      1. tree and Tony Ramirez like this.
      2. Tony Ramirez
        Tony Ramirez
        Thanks. A friend took it before Sunday Church service. She wished me a Happy Birthday.
        Jun 14, 2019
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      3. Rexi
        Rexi
        I just realized it's a cat eye. The mystery has been solved.
        Aug 30, 2020
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    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Jun 9, 1977 (Age: 44)
    Location:
    Brooklyn, NY
    Diagnosis Status:
    Aspergers Syndrome - Officially Diagnosed

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    Anxiety in Crowds, Venues small and large Difficulty Scale 0-8
    Phobias - Kakologophobia, Zomaiphobia, Maskaphobia
    Music for Aspies - Drone Zone from SomaFM
    IR - Impossible Relationships which means a friendship, romance with that female person or just any friendship with anyone is impossible. Cats are the best pets.