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Recent content by snaporaz

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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Got it. Thank you so much for elaborating. Also - just to clarify: we were never married and therefore not divorced - just ex-partners who amicably co-parent their child 50/50.
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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Thanks for your thoughts! The ASD affects the good relationship and communication so that's kind of the issue. May I ask what you mean by "the horse has already left the barn"?
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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Her Poly lifestyle is not really an issue. It is her being true to herself, and I have always supported it, though it certainly caused challenges in our relationship when she pursued it with the focus and intensity of someone on the spectrum. But I really do believe she is on the spectrum and...
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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Thank you for your insightful and thoughtful reply! I'm pretty set on just respectfully waiting for her to make her own way to whatever diagnosis. The fact that her twin is actively pursuing a diagnosis for herself will almost inevitably then impact my ex and then we shall see. But if our son...
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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Thank you! And agreed on all fronts. She does go to therapy (I think you got our genders switched) but has focused on her identity as a polyamorous and non-monogamous person, which is great for her and all, but it's kind of omitting the bigger picture, which is her ASD being a key driver of her...
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    NT with an undiagnosed ex-partner with ASD - how to proceed?

    Hi All - I'm NT and spent 20+ years with my partner and mother of our child - only to have our relationship end a little over a year ago. That said we have managed to remain good friends and co-parents, to the point that we spend holidays and vacations together, mainly for the sake of our son...
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