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Recent content by Redruby

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    Update- I'm seeing a light with the Aspie man who was not treating me so kind

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    Update- I'm seeing a light with the Aspie man who was not treating me so kind

    At the end of last year, I wrote on this forum seeking love advices. I'll paste a quote of what was happening below. I wanted to update especially to thank you for your support as well as after reading my posts, wanting to apologize to the readers and commentators- I hope I wasn't generalizing...
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    Follow Up - NT F with Aspie M - FWB - confused

    I wanted to follow up with my on going thing with my Aspie. I thank you all first for your responses to my original post, I wrote in when I was feeling the most sadest, and the following two weeks I basically went thru withdrawal from the love addiction I have for the guy. It was painful, but I...
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    NT female with Aspie man - am I stuck as a FWB

    Hi everyone. I wanted to follow up. I thank you all first for your responses, I wrote in when I was feeling the most sadest, and the following two weeks I basically went thru withdrawal from the love addiction I have for the guy. It was painful, but I questioned my personal issues (why I go...
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    NT female with Aspie man - am I stuck as a FWB

    Thank you all for your responses. Mia, your answer hit a deep emotion and issue I have with my childhood and your reply was very heavy for me. Tom, you are right. He is being honest with his intentions so it is basically my fault that I caught feelings. Beverly, I think he wants multiple...
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    NT new user - hello

    Thank you. I've never met anyone with aspergers before him and while it has been a battle for me (emotional ups and downs that only I go thru), I would love a chance for me to get to know such a kind hearted caring man like him - although he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me :/ haha...
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    NT female with Aspie man - am I stuck as a FWB

    Hello Everyone, I have been reading this forums for a while and I appreciate everyone's honesty and advices and decided to write a topic myself. Any advices or thoughts written for me will be much appreciated. I am a NT female who has met an Aspie man a little over a year online. We texted and...
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    NT new user - hello

    I do. I have posted for an advice in the love relationship forum. I have a guy I have been talking to for a little over a year who has asperger.
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    NT new user - hello

    Hello! I am new to this forum.
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    NT female courting an Aspie Male - Advices appreciated

    I am a NT woman that is in love with an Aspie man. We have been having a physical relationship for about 6 months now but I want to be in a relationship with him. He's been very clear that he doesn't want a relationship with me because he doesn't see it with me. Once the mind is made, is...
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