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Recent content by rainydays

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    Internet relationships- tips for young players

    My negative personal experience that I will bring to this is not everyone is honest. I was lied to for years, and I had a feeling because this person wouldn't talk to me on the phone, or skype. If you make a friend, or even maybe a romantic connection, make sure to verify their identity...
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    How can I remain friends with an ex?

    Hello again Slithytoves, I may have rushed the process, but yesterday I felt compelled to contact him and explain my last outburst and apologize for the way I handled things. I am still very sad, I did not expect that to dissipate, but I feel a little calmer.. I felt guilt, I am someone who is a...
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    hello

    Hey Adora, thank you. For me I think it's any long term relationship or friendship.. It's just a little more painful with real life people. I think I'm used to people I met online vanishing over time so I have lower expectations, but it's still hard for me in real life.
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    hello

    Thank you EdR, from what I've seen this is a safe place.
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    Comment by 'rainydays' in 'Man Tragically Killed Himself.'

    :( This is awful. That dog might have been all he had. His only source of love and company. It frightens me that people can be this cold.
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    feeling less blue thanks to the community!

    feeling less blue thanks to the community!
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    hello

    Thank you :)
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    What do you like to collect?

    It started with stamps, I graduated to bags, then shoes, then (unused) postcards now make-up. I have a tendency to save anything that has a happy memory attached to it, like movie tickets or even a map of the London underground..it's always a struggle to throw these things away.. I like my...
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    hello

    Thank you StephF!
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    hello

    Thank you very much Harrison and Judge! This is probably the warmest welcome I've ever received on any kind of forum. :)
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    How can I remain friends with an ex?

    Thank you very much. I've been thinking about this for weeks and I don't know if I have the clarity to be objective right now. I am trying. :( Do you think seperation is the best way to process unrequieted feelings until they fade? Maybe it depends per person.
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    How can I remain friends with an ex?

    Thank you very much for your reply, and giving me an actual tool! I have a lot of introspection to do.
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    Crossroad in a long distance relationship

    Yeah co-dependent relationships are a pain in the *** but we love who we love.
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    Crossroad in a long distance relationship

    Talking to you kind of feels like talking to myself because it was the same for me. I think you are possibly so emotionally involved/close that it's difficult for you to objectively observe him, the way you analyze others (at a distance). The best advice I can give you is to try to remain calm...
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    Crossroad in a long distance relationship

    Okay, that's great news! I'm really relieved to hear that. I think you are very brave and he is very lucky to have you.
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