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Recent content by Pesky Person

  1. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Maybe because when you have nothing to talk about, it's more complicated to end together in bed? .) Especially, when girls in spectrum have problems in first touches (even me) and expressing interest (even me)? I don't say you can't be right. But I haven't seen much arguments why to prefer...
  2. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    But I don't see real reason for it. How I said, I met more NT girls I liked and they liked me. Sometimes I was one of their bestfriends and they talked about in me in this way. But, lets say "no chemistry" was there (I guess, problem is somewhere in my behavior). I haven't met girl (or anyone)...
  3. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    I'm not sure we understand each other. I wasn't talking about how chemistry work or not. I just mentioned, that chemistry don't balance in choice between NT and spectrum ones. So, we can omit this variable in next part of my post. I don't disagree about how people could see me. But what is the...
  4. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    I agree - meeting single person doesn't mean anything. As a first - let's omit the chemistry. It doesn't work overall and yes, this is problem to solve, but it works on everyone the same. People adviced me to date with AS people. So I would guess better experiences. But date was terrible, and...
  5. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Not exactly. You can't buy someone's attention. Ok, you can buy more time together, but it's just a pain, not real relationship. I pay on a date at a restaurant. It is polite. But I hate expensive gifts (in both directions). Even so, I prefer financial independence for both of us. She has to...
  6. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    It's not exactly what happened. She later indirectly admitted that she wanted to feel better and wanted. I can't trust her like before. Not angry yet, just lost interest in her as a person. I would never think about having sex with her (without her started talking about it) and personally, I'm...
  7. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Rexi: I have been rejected frow all sort of girls. I'm not proud of it, but I have ever wanted to know how it is to have a sex .) Not so to pay for it and not so to go with girl I really dont like (very ugly or person I would never believe or like). I had a few good friends, talking to me how...
  8. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Eric the NNT: I met some aspergers in facebook groups. Non of them seemed to be attractive for me (little too close-minded from my point of view). Later, one great looking girl wrote me, that she read about my dating problems and she has the same. So, we had a date (at least to find whats wrong...
  9. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Rexi: Humor is my defense and always have been help to not get insane .) Maybe Im little weird combination of excited positive children and negative old man full of responsibility and suspicious to manking... I can be teasing, using a humor, but its quite hard to find "compatible" person. Im...
  10. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Judge: Well, my good friends are girls I liked, but they didn't want me as a boyfriend. Anyway, I like girls, who doesn't make me nervous (smiling, open-minded)...seems to be aphrodisiac for me. Lena_131309: It is hard to describe. I don't see THE mistakes, so I can't tell you. Maybe I would...
  11. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Thank you for suggestions. 1) It depends, but usually - more I knew them before = better conversation. When I ask personally (semi)uknown person, it was disaster. Usually prefer texting over internet before. But still - starting conversation without knowing anything about the person is quite...
  12. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    It doesn't need just time. Something must be (radically?) changed. I was rejected by many, many girls. Some of them (before/after) were my friends and we had great time together, but I stayed friend for them. Thank you, but I would rather look for time tips, ideas...now I'm empty :) And of...
  13. Pesky Person

    Surprisingly unattractive

    Hi all, it turned out lately, that I should be highly functional aspie. My life is not such a bad. Have a few friends, job... but what has been real pain - relationships. I have been always charmed, when I have spoted interesting girl nearby. But still, in my whole live, I had only one very...
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