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Recent content by Persephone_

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    Trouble

    NT here ..... I date a guy with Aspergers.... I been through some harsh times, and people here gave me precious advice. My 2 cents ..... NO ONE DESERVES TO BE CALLED RETARDED. This is too rough .... and you really don't behave as someone that has no capability to take care of your self. I...
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    How to Communicate My Point of View

    Hello Sissel, I don't discuss politics with NO ONE .....lol........I hate Trump, my dear one loves him ...... I am not going to discuss this ...... in my opinion, and with respect to other Trump lovers out there, time will show what will happen ... Possibly, he might be the second (correct me...
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    I can't talk to my wife about my Aspergers

    NT here ...... She might need time to "digest" the new information of your diagnoses..... I am in a relationship with a AS guy, he is very dear and special to me; but to hear his news about he being an Asperger's wasn't easier at first..... and still creates some confusion from time to time...
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    friends, when life gets in the way

    I will leave here my NT 2 cents... Unfortunately that is quite common. Most people don't understand the value of friendship. But, there is hope! As other people say, try to meet with people with same interests. Even if you don't build a deep relationship, is good to have social friends...
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    The double meltdown

    Hello dear, Did you ever tried for professional help? Or can you avoid the things that triggers this situation? I am not sure I can tell you anything that might offer you some comfort, but perhaps other people here might have some similar situations to share with you! Hope you have a great...
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    I don't think I will ever get married even if I want to.

    Yes you will find! When we get older, we understand more and more about us..... I feel like, as an NT person dating an AS guy, that maturity is the key ..... You will find the right girl that will be willing to understand you ... and avoid too fast things ...... they just don't work ...... you...
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    Thank you!!!!

    Thank you!!!!
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    I said one thing, he understood another thing. Me NT he AS. I need some light here...

    Mr. Spock, thank you so much for this! And again, thanks for all other messages... You guys are really supportive ...for everyone that comes here with doubts... And, is funny, I call him Spock sometimes...... is like a couple nickname.... It seems to me, Spock gave me a very close...
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    How To Proceed With My Aspie?

    You know what you need...... just walk away for sometime...
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    How To Proceed With My Aspie?

    My Dear, ad just as Bolletje said above, I would walk away completely. I know it will really hurt in the beginning, but it will be best for you. Some people have to loose completely what they got to understand the value of it. And I agree, he seems to keep you "on the hook", that's too...
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    How To Proceed With My Aspie?

    My Dear, Honestly, go away ... I'm sorry to tell you in this openly. Normally I am the one saying that we have to try to the end. And for me, it seems you did it. He told you more than once that he does not want a relationship (correct me if I understood it wrong). And if you stay around...
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    Boyfriend with Asperger's almost cheated. Advice please!

    My 2 cents here: This has nothing to do with his Aspie mind. Most guys act like that. But as Molly Polly said, he was fixing a problem, possibly... I guess the better solution is talk to him, on an effect way that he understood that this is not good for your relationship. AND if you decide to...
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    I said one thing, he understood another thing. Me NT he AS. I need some light here...

    I would like to thank you all again for your words. I can understand now a bit more of what happened. And hopefully, how to deal with it. :) thank you
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    Long-term NT-Aspie Relationship: Is Invalidation Normal?

    Sisselcakes, Good insights ......I will get the books you mentioned. I am having some trouble with my Volkano guy. And I have to learn how to don't mess up everything when he acts in a way I can't understand... :)
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    Can I win him back?

    This is true! and a good advice, give him time to think!
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