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Recent content by Pbrain
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Marriage problems-masking Q
Oh my goodness, big misunderstanding. There is a HUGE difference between my husband’s deceptions, which were acting out outside of our coupleship for over three decades, which we are TRYING to recover from, and masking! Although I appreciate your concern, I am absolutely not conflating them...- Pbrain
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- Forum: Help and Support
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Marriage problems-masking Q
Thank you for the suggestion! I will!- Pbrain
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- Forum: Help and Support
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Marriage problems-masking Q
Thank you for everyone’s input today. We had a good talk and it turned out well. As you pointed out, he struggled to put words to his values (and to separate out from who he acts like), so he thought about it a lot before putting together a list of values that he has and now wants to live by. No...- Pbrain
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- Forum: Help and Support
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Marriage problems-masking Q
We’ve been married over three decades. We are at a crossroads and I am willing to start fresh with him in a better place. Are you suggesting we need to separate a bit for him to figure out who he is? I did suggest this several times, always being ok if he decided who he was and even if it wasn’t...- Pbrain
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- Forum: Help and Support
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Marriage problems-masking Q
Thank you so much for replying! I believe he’s a very good man and tell him that. But h said he wasn’t allowed to define himself growing up because “everyone” told him who to be. He’s understandably angry and hurt by his childhood, which also included bullying for being different because of...- Pbrain
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- Forum: Help and Support
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Marriage problems-masking Q
My HFA husband has been living a double life for several decades and I found out 9mo ago. That marriage is dead but I’m hoping we can start a new and healthy marriage based on honesty and transparency. He says he wants to but is struggling to know who he is. He’s been seeing several therapists...- Pbrain
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