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    In the 60s corrupt local officials in the southwest US took bribes in exchange for the drawing...

    In the 60s corrupt local officials in the southwest US took bribes in exchange for the drawing and sale of "phantom subdivisions" that mostly existed as drawings in the county recorder's office, then sold grazing rights to the areas separately. Over time a few people homesteaded in the areas and...
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    There are lots of cows where I live, but they are not mine. Under traditional common law in the...

    There are lots of cows where I live, but they are not mine. Under traditional common law in the American Far West there is something called "grazing rights". Basically it means a rancher can graze his cows legally on what is legally other people's property.
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    Younger son had fun yesterday, I came out to him too

    Little kids love to experiment. If he likes dressing as a girl on occasion there is nothing wrong with that. From the info given, it doesn't sound like he is convinced he is actually a girl in a boy's body, he's just a little boy who likes to pretend he is a girl simply out of childhood...
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    Younger son had fun yesterday, I came out to him too

    Great, we all need to have our parent(s) behind us. I personally would worry about accidental misgendering, especially if he's still on the fence about his gender ID. I think you can buy "pronoun buttons" on Ebay that he can wear so that everybody knows how to gender him correctly. I find that...
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    Do what thou wilt, so long as it harms none. -Aleister Crowley

    Do what thou wilt, so long as it harms none. -Aleister Crowley
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    You're in a desert and I'm not, so even though it gets really cold in Reno in winter, snow at...

    You're in a desert and I'm not, so even though it gets really cold in Reno in winter, snow at the level of downtown Reno is relatively rare. I'm sure you've heard the stories about tourists being sold a winter getaway in "the warm desert of Reno" by crooked travel salesmen only to find...
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    First snow of the season, 7 January 2026. [ATTACH]

    First snow of the season, 7 January 2026.
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    Here is a synopsis of the movie. If you've ever come across cultural references to...

    Here is a synopsis of the movie. If you've ever come across cultural references to "Thunderdome", this is where it came from. Mad Max Beyond Thunderdome - Wikipedia
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    This song keeps popping up on the local grocery store's 80s muzak system. I think it is...

    This song keeps popping up on the local grocery store's 80s muzak system. I think it is appropriate for today in a way that Tina Turner could never have foreseen.
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    In California there is still a law on the books that says that any animal harassing livestock...

    In California there is still a law on the books that says that any animal harassing livestock can be shot. I know in the Central Coast where there are wild pigs people regularly shoot pigs that are killing their chickens.
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    Happy new year 2026! It's a nice day to start again! [MEDIA]

    Happy new year 2026! It's a nice day to start again!
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    MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!! [ATTACH]

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!
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    Sky is falling today until at least Friday. Chicken Little is monitoring the weather reports...

    Sky is falling today until at least Friday. Chicken Little is monitoring the weather reports.
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    My trailer has a standard RV door and had a standard RV vent that leaked badly from the start...

    My trailer has a standard RV door and had a standard RV vent that leaked badly from the start due to vent hardware corrosion and the deterioration of the vent cover. More info here: Creating a tiny home from a 23' toy hauler RV
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    Well, it was built as a "toy hauler", which in the USA is a specialized RV used for hauling off...

    Well, it was built as a "toy hauler", which in the USA is a specialized RV used for hauling off road vehicles like all terrain hobbyist vehicles and go karts. Such RV's are usually empty inside, except for maybe some cabinets and occasionally a sleeping bunk.
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