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Recent content by newbiesomuch

  1. newbiesomuch

    Can your partner help during a meltdown?

    I'll just ask - my lovely one gets stuck in his own head, re-living his traumas, he's twitching all over, muttering some things under his nose, and - which is awful - pressing his nails into his palm. Have any of you encountered such behavior? If yes, how can I help him?
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    Issue with cats

    Unfortunately nope. I have very small house. Usually it's ok, it's just when male wants to play he jumps on her and they start to fight. That doesn't happen often - 3-4 times a day - but it gets on my guy's nerves since they're very loud during that...
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    Issue with cats

    Thank you! I was just thinking if there is anything I can do to help, but if some parts of this is what he needs to get used to, then it's a relief. I think I'll try talking to him about getting cats out during sex, and finding earplugs that could work. Not going to kick them out at night...
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    Issue with cats

    Thank you, all! OF COURSE I won't get rid of my cats, there is no way I'm going to do that. They're siblings, same litter male and female, 2yo. The guy is attacking the girl often, I think he just wants to play, but she doesn't so she hissess and growls and that's how fights go. My beloved is...
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    Issue with cats

    So, my beloved has issues with my cats. They are fighting a lot, running around the house, and they're very distracting for him, and he often feels overwhelmed by them. Thing is, I have a very small house - only two rooms, one long corridor, and they're banned from one of those rooms. My cats...
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    How intense are your interests?

    My man needs to know everything. Whenever something he doesn't know or didn't hear about before comes up, he needs to check it asap. And by ASAP I mean sitting in a philharmonic and checking on phone who wrote the song. He also has compulsive need to read news. Especially bad news. And then he...
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    How to be chill???

    How to be chill???
  8. newbiesomuch

    Learning to get some chill

    Learning to get some chill
  9. newbiesomuch

    Newbie here!

    Hi, I'm 33yo from Poland! Half a year in a relationship with a guy who's clearly on the spectrum, although not diagnosed. Also, he's Swedish, so that's also cross-country relationship. Not end of the issues, as I'm diagnosed with borderline personality disorder xD So, there is a lot going on...
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