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Recent content by Maathematics

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    The opposite of obsession?

    Don't get me wrong, I love the hard sound of metal! that particular dislike is something altogether unrelated to the sound (something I respectfully decline to elaborate upon).
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    Turn A Classic Bad Guy Into A Good One

    I have an example of a very easily overlooked Bad guy from movies: The Private Dick. When we view the average Private Investigator movie. What do we see? The stereotype we are provided is the washed up ex-cop. The cops he used to work with absolutely hate him (sometimes he has one reluctant...
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    Hi I'm new here

    Pleased to meet you Red fox.
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    Hi from East Texas

    Hello Alan, I too am new to researching Aspergers so I probably wont be much help. I can relate with your daughter, high school was a very overwhelming time for me.
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    I'm always terrible at intro posts

    Greetings Pulsewidth, we all have to start somewhere.
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    Hello ~

    Hello Dakura! welcome
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    Hi

    Hello emmvee! welcome! let us all learn from our collective experiences.
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    Hello from Australia.

    Thank you for the welcome Judge and Ereth! I honestly don't know who I am anymore (other than apparently opinionated, irritable, blunt, and inappropriate), so I really am yet to find a better way to be.
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    Kissing

    Yeah, it is a matter of preference really, I found it odd at the time though. She was the only female I have been with that didn't like it (I originally wasn't into it, but girls kind of insisted upon it). Do try it at least once if you can... it is an interesting experience.
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    how do you get a girlfriend?

    Make female friends. Female friends bring more females into your life, giving you a greater range to choose from. If you already have a female you are interested in dating, talk to her, if you are skilled at the use of innuendo, talk on that level to test the waters. I have found in the past the...
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    Kissing

    I personally enjoy kissing (both plutonic and romantic), but do not like being kissed (it feels weird). my last girlfriend (about four years ago) was an Aspie. She liked kissing and all things sexual, but could not bring herself to French kiss for some unknown reason.
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    Foreplay

    I must admit I quite enjoy touching others (when I have to opportunity to do so... I don't like being touched or touching if there is no reason for it). I have always loved foreplay for this reason. I don't know about others here, but the sex act itself leaves me feeling very cold. It has...
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    Are Aspies oblivious to repercussions?

    Until the events of this year, I never understood that my actions had long running consequence... I always thought what I do is normal and acceptable (nobody ever told me otherwise!) Now however I realise that I usually present as very aggressive, irritated and narcissistic. I understand my...
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    Training for Social Skills

    Take it from my experience (and what a horrible experience it was), most people (about 99.99% of the world) LOVE small talk. They really do not want to know about your deeper thoughts and obsessions. volunteering your private thoughts and information is just asking for trouble. Keep that for...
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    Training for Social Skills

    You know, society actually provides people that are payed to exercise good interpersonal skills with you! They are called customer service staff. If you think about it: it takes good interpersonal skills to be a successful waitress or waiter. The same is the case for telemarketers. In their...
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