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Recent content by Ladyliss

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    Are you happy with that?

    And yes I do actually appreciate that. He could have lied, for example, in response to "promise me you'll never do that again". It would have been easier but he didn't. One of the reasons I've slowly, and finally deduced that ASD might be at the heart of our differences.
  2. L

    Are you happy with that?

    Thanks guys That would actually be fine. I can't speak for the whole NT tribe here but I am actually asking a question when I say this. If the answer is no, I'd ask what he prefers or propose something else. Great! That probably means I'm on track :) Yeah, I think you're right, I do need...
  3. L

    Am I Expecting Too Much?

    (Also, the fact that he's apparently forgotten doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't care. It's just that his mind and most of the rest of the world appears to work on the same assumption about email being non urgent. If he doesn't respond well to your reminder then I'd say you might need a...
  4. L

    Am I Expecting Too Much?

    Hmm. Maybe revisit with him about why you use email the way you do. I'm NT myself and associate email with non urgent communication, especially if it's a social relationship. For the surgery contact, if have expected a call if the surgery was coming up soon. Not to say that you need to do it his...
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    Are you happy with that?

    Hi all. NT here, trying to understand relationship failure and now co-parenting with my undiagnosed but I'm quite sure HFA ex husband. I think I've had a breakthrough! So posting here in case it's of use to others. The breakthrough is this: STOP ASKING HIM IF HE'S HAPPY WITH SOMETHING. That...
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    My boyfriend broke up with me after 4 years, told me he "fell out of love with me"

    Dear3G, of it helps at all, this is how I think of the recent ending of my marriage to my aspie husband. He COULDN'T do the relating, and knowing that he couldn't add how much it hurt me that he couldn't (our romance had long since ended), he called it. Maybe to end my pain, maybe to relieve his...
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    Hello :) Can you please help me understand what happened to my ASD-NT marriage?

    Oh my goodness :D This made me laugh, but you have a good point. Yes, I do need more to know than that he loves me. It's not blood that I need, but no doubt it feels like it to him o_O and no, teddy bear cannot deliver (I don't think adults are so different from children in this regard)...
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    Hello :) Can you please help me understand what happened to my ASD-NT marriage?

    Thanks guys. I only just got back on here to read all the answers, and really appreciate the effort you went to. And Bella Pines you made me laugh :D, not angry. I actually think I'm surrounded by ASD (suspected dad, confirmed sister, probable for my two other brothers, confirmed for one nephew)...
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    Hello :) Can you please help me understand what happened to my ASD-NT marriage?

    Hi everyone I'm NT, but struggling to understand separation from my (undiagnosed, probably) high functioning ASD husband. I think the relationship is done, but there are some things about it that still deeply confuse me, and I'm here to see if someone can kindly help me see it from his point of...
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