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Recent content by Ktm93

  1. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    For so long i've convinced myself im better off alone and i can do it on my own. But i know deep down i want exactly what you have. I hope she sees that too. She really is precious. Im happy for you though, 43 years and still doing dates! Thats amazing. My role model for this is my parents who...
  2. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    While i understand what you're saying, as i have experienced that with friends who preferred the chase rather than the catch, thats just not me. Its most certainly not a coping mechanism. And it didnt suddenly switch. It switched over time, and us spending that time together. When i first...
  3. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Thank you, thats nice to hear. I just need that special someone to actually give me that chance though. Thats the hardest part for me it seems.
  4. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    The girl i like can aswell, shes very smart. The mental health system in the UK is a pure and utter joke though. It took 13 years for me to be diagnosed with what i have even though i had all the symptoms back when i was 12 and 13
  5. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Yes i have. I had an evaluation for aspergers but they decided i had some traits but ultimately was not autistic. But i share a lot of symptoms and i know that. It has been suggested i get reevaluated but i dont know. During the evaluation i was given 5 cards and told to create a story from...
  6. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Ah okay, thanks for clearing that up. I dont look for sex. Ive been there and done that. What i've never had is someone actually care about me, but likewise, i've never cared for the girlfriends ive had because i settled for them. Even the abusive one i settled for. Settling is bad and i...
  7. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Im glad to be of service. It did make me chuckle lol.
  8. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Im not used to seeing such kindness so its really nice to see people wishing me well. Im not sure what NT and ND means though lol. Sorry I usually have been afraid of showinf feelings if im honest. I tend to be quite cold but she does bring it out of me. Its just always a worry that if i show...
  9. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Thanks for the detailed reply. Right now im at a stage where we dont talk very much. Shes busy and since our small tiff she does seem to have taken a step back from me. Thats how it seems anyway but she may just be busy. I do miss her a lot right now though. I think thats whats hardest. I will...
  10. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    I live in the UK. Im aware of the importance of physical attraction in person. I need to get there first. Im not one to rush someone into meeting. I prefer it going naturally. Im not totally convinced of the whole pheromones thing. I have many friends who fell in love online and didnt meet for...
  11. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Haha thank you. I think that may overwhelm her though. Im not sure. I may copy and paste it to word but honestly, i think long messages overwhelm her in general. So may not be the best idea. Thank you for the nice comment saying it sounds romantic. I am romantic when i get given the chance. But...
  12. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    I dont know why but this made me emotional lol. Thats really nice to say and im so happy you can realise from my text that yes, she really is important to me. And thank you for the first sentence as i do feel a bit idk...silly for posting here to strangers. Im someone who doesnt open up very...
  13. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    That was really helpful. Thank you. With me I do kind of know but I just freeze up and panic and need reassurance which isn't very attractive or grown up i guess. This does stem from my upbringing and the abusive relationship i was in. I know I lost some of her trust with the small argument we...
  14. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    Thank you. My intuition is bad. That kind of fills me with dread lol. I've messed up so much in my life because i sometimes dont think or i overthink. I just want this to work for once. Im not even saying shes the one or anything. I just want that ride to see where we go. If we dont mesh or work...
  15. K

    Fallen for a woman with Aspergers.

    I cant do that. I haven't even told her i have feelings for her yet. So i dont think me saying "im open to moving to you area" would be such a great idea right now. If that was a person saying that to me who was a friend i'd be creeped out tbh.
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