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Recent content by Koala79

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    Aspie BF and staring

    Morning everyone, huge thank you to everyone who replied to my post. Ive found it reassuring. I’ve taken on board what everyone has said and decided to broach the subject gently if/when it happens it again, keeping it low key. Thanks again :-)
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    Aspie BF and staring

    Thanks for your kind words. He’s such a wonderful bf in every other way, I don’t want the relationship to end because of my own ignorance
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    Aspie BF and staring

    I’m going to ask him tonight. No he doesn’t stare at a lot of things. He does however have a fixation with long hair on women - he finds it extremely attractive and these girls did have long hair (so do I) so it could have been the hair that caught his attention. I don’t know if that’s makes it...
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    Aspie BF and staring

    Thank you for your words of encouragement, I really hope it can be solved. To clarify I am NT. One of the big problems ive had in this relationship is getting my bf to articulate things. If I broach the staring subject tonight I’m expecting him to get upset and confused. He will be unable to...
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    Aspie BF and staring

    Thank you so much for your insightful replies. I wouldn’t describe it as leering as such, it’s more of a prolonged stare (sometimes with smiling) that extends beyond what would be considered polite. One one occasion he stopped mid sentence to stare at a girl walking past with her midriff...
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    Aspie BF and staring

    Hi everyone, I’m new to the forum and looking for some advice. I started dating my boyfriend a year ago. He’s high functioning austistic and in his 40’s. He’s my world, and he makes me feel like I am his. He is the sweetest and most attentive man I could have wished for. I am his first ever...
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    Hey everyone!

    Hi, I’m new to the forum. I’m NT and started dating a high functioning autistic man a year ago. Looking for info and a bit of insight :-)
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