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Recent content by Klara

  1. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Hi guys! ❤ I'm going to see him on Wednesday and bring this topic then. Thank you for your responses - these anwsers and suggestions have broadened my understanding of the situation. I am even going to take some notes based on it, so I won't forget any of the important stuff :) Wish me luck ❤
  2. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Hahaha I need to explain - he asked me to be his girlfriend, so technically we are together :) I've also alredy asked him, why he doesn't contact me more and he said just that he's not used to. But this is confusing for me, because I've got this image in my head that the in the beginning of a...
  3. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    You know, that's the thing - I think he treats me like his best bros (exepct the kissing - at least I hope so! ;) )... like he didn't get that our friendship got upgraded and now is a relationship. And now I've got a bit different expactations and he doesn't understand/see it.
  4. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    I'm afraid not - this would be too painful for me at this point, you see, we have a long history with him being distant and me being heart-broken. I couldn't stand it once more. That's why I want to do the best I can in order to make it work - because at this point is one way or another.
  5. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Yes, I've checked them, but it's very hard for me to say if he fits in. In some criteria he does, in other he does not.
  6. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Soo... can asexuality be connected to the spectrum of autism?
  7. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    I didn't know if I should write this or not - yes, he is in the "gray zone" of asexuality. But I've never thought that this is connected to this plain "romantic" stuff! O.O
  8. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Thank you for your responses so far guys - I really appreciate them! Oh, haha I didn't expect such question :) I love about him that he is such a vulnerable type, he always tries to emphatize with people, rarely judges them. He's got the biggest heart. Also there is always fun with him beacause...
  9. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Oh no, there is more to it. He experiences big problems with talking about emotions - it's like he's acting upon some script "how people should behave when sb experience sadness/anger etc" also he can not talk about his own feelings, he sais he sometimes just don't uderstand them. I have never...
  10. K

    Very little need for contact while in a relationship

    Hi guys! :) I'll be very glad if you could help me. My question is: do people on the spectrum of autism experience smaller need for maintaining contact with a partner? I'm a bit confused, because my partner doesn't act like a "typical" person in love - at least not in a way that I am used to...
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