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Recent content by Jumpinbare

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    Do you like being autistic?

    Depends how you define girlfriend. There was a girl from my church who took it in her head that I was her future husband. I had no romantic interest in her, but I didn't want to be rude or hurt her feelings, so we had a very one-sided "relationship" for a few months. We only ever saw each...
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    Beginning friendships - mutual initiation, or not??

    You give me too much credit. At the family holiday gatherings, I am very quiet unless one of the two techie relatives is there. Then we'll find a corner somewhere and update each other on our tech interests. Small talk dodged.
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    What should be your most important goals in life right now?

    Same as always has been. To make the world genuinely better for having been here.
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    This Site

    I have seen the same format on other forums (fora?). At least it seems close enough to this uncalibrated web afinicianado.
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    Dad Jokes

    My grandfather used to make us cousins stand silently side-by-side, looking straight ahead for several minutes at a time.
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    Dad Jokes

    Two babies, born on the same day, were lying next to each other in the hospital nursery, just silently looking at each other. Eventually, their families took them home. 85 years later, two old men were together in a hospital room, both on their death beds, silently looking at each other. One...
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    This Site

    Thank you! I wrote it in first grade while the other kids were coloring. (This is a complete lie, BTW)
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    Do you get along better with people with autism or NTs?

    NDs, statistically. Majority of my friends I now believe have been ND, now that I know what to look for.
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    Quiz Yourself: recite

    I was actually using it as a joke example of reciting. I actually have made use of the list, but I have not tried to memorize it.
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    Do you like being autistic?

    Not so absolute. Many of us gravitated to the sciences instead.
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    Do you like being autistic?

    We retroactively decided that the second time we met and I took her and her son fishing was our first date. It was also my first-ever date.
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    Quiz Yourself: recite

    That's the 500 most used words in the English language - in order of use.
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    Do you like being autistic?

    I was 39 when I met my wife-to-be. Neither of us were actively looking for a relationship at the time. Circumstances brought us together, and we were both open to the idea. We both shared what we considered our biggest flaws, and neither of us ran off screaming. A year after we met, we married...
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    Hello!

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