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Recent content by JayJamesJay

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    Long-term NT-Aspie Relationship: Is Invalidation Normal?

    RUNNNNN! Then hide.... It will NOT get any better...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    Hello Sabrina.... Thank you for that. Honestly! That is one of the most beautiful and well articulated sets of ideas I have been offered on this side of things, from anyone... I mean that. Healing words and I appreciate them. Thank you :) Jay
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    To blame ASD??? I never said that... That maybe ASD is/was involved. Or maybe something else even.... What's going on here?
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    hmm. me. i can guess, imply, use my experience and apply the wisdom that comes with being in the world, after dealing with the thousands of people, to have a sense of what someone MIGHT have been feeling, thinking, motivated by or wanting - when they do ANY NUMBER of things. i can. rarely, very...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    hmm. i like blunt. but i also like thoughtful. you know, the wisdom that comes when considering the many things that need be considered when looking at complex/complicated happening... both are possible... blunt & thoughtful. both. this is feeling yucky,,, sorry. yes. she is gone. yes. there is...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    jeeeeze. i didn't come here to argue - with all due respect... i think there are a lot of things pointing to a LOT of other things going on here. I guess folks just think its as simple as that. nothing in life is - as simple. people are complicated. relationships are complicated. life is...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    my fault? thanks thats pretty black and white.
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    I appreciate that Fitzo. Thank you. It seems I have no choice but to let it go. That's whats happening. At the same time, wise folks say good things are worth fighting for, figuring out, working on. I was hoping for some insights from an experienced group that might have some clues into what...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    no (zero) friends or visitors. no (zero) sexual appetite for 2 yrs. an inability to have or resisting civil fair emotional conversation during end of OR during relationship. divorce where children stayed with (abusive?) husband. hated school and childhood years. never said or voiced clear...
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    I'm doing the best I can. I have left her alone. Thanks for the understanding :)
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    Insight, guidance, HELP in (AS?) relationship needed

    I fell in love with a woman I (today) strongly believe to have Asperger's and would love to hear peoples thoughts. Sorry this is so long. I met an amazing woman. She glows. By appearance she didn't seem to have a worry in the world. She is unusually attractive, 55 (appearing 40), Caucasian...
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