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Recent content by Ihilani

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    Identifying Non-Literal Questions Right Away

    Thank you for sharing. Your response makes me feel less alone in that it's easier to see that maybe I'm not wrong, but rather, this is just a difference in how we think and see. It often feels like other are asking for lies, but in trusting that maybe the intentions of others is honesty, I...
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    Identifying Non-Literal Questions Right Away

    I agree that his intentions are good, he's open to a more direct/literal response and he's demonstrating social skills, but it has become clear that he's not looking to understand my thought process and admitted that he came into the conversation already decided that I was wrong and wanted me to...
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    Identifying Non-Literal Questions Right Away

    That's a great insight. It hadn't occurred to me at all that that's what he's wanting, but I can see how that explains his actions and helps me to see why my actions were not taken well. Thanks so much!
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    Identifying Non-Literal Questions Right Away

    I need help identifying non-literal questions right away. Please provide any pro-tips, insights, or general observations that may help. I am asking because I am having difficulty communicating with my boss. For example, he'll ask, "Why did you ..." But, he's really saying, "You messed up. Own...
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