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Recent content by Helena921

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    Saturday night

    Thanks. There are many good times, and we've been together almost a year. He does not like to plan ahead, he works hard, and comes over about 2-3 times a week, usually on the spur of the moment. So far, he has resisted my efforts to plan ahead. For whatever reason, I have a very hard time...
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    Saturday night

    Thanks for all of your replies. Yes, one of us thinks that Saturday evenings should be spent together if possible, the other sees it as any other day, and generally will spend it alone doing nothing (him, of course LOL). I'm really not trying to force anything, just trying to work through a...
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    Saturday night

    I just want to get some opinions on whether there is an "unwritten rule" that couples should spend Saturday evenings together. This would be if neither had to work or did not have some other obligation.
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    changes in plans

    Oh, he is welcome at any time. But....it would be nice to be able to plan a meal maybe, and, as an aspie myself who likes a little structure or routine in my days/evenings, the sudden change is sometimes difficult. Once in a while wouldn't matter much, but it happens quite often.
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    changes in plans

    Hi, I'm glad to have found this group! I'd like to ask for some help. My bf and I are both on the spectrum (asperger). He is moderate, I am mild. The problem we are having now is due to plans being canceled by him at the last minute, or him coming to my place on very short notice. He doesn't...
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