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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Well it sounds to me like you guys have a great loving relationship, and its nice to hear that even when things can get complicated at least you try : ) If this was a week ago and we were able to have a conversation about all of this, I would accept him, I loved him dearly. It has been a week...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    I should make something clear here which to my fault I did not in my original post because I was very upset at the time but I did not know he was on the spectrum until right after this all happened. So I came on here to try and gain knowledge and understand better. At the time I did point out to...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    I do not think you were being insensitive but just honest and I appreciate that. I will admit its hard to hear but it makes a lot of sense. He was very full on after about 3 weeks saying he was in love with me and then about a month into it saying he was gonna marry me one day. I agree this was...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Thank you so much for all of your input. It has been 6 days since I last heard from him and I know deep down in my heart I wont ever. He shut me out completely and I'm sure has moved on. He did delete me off of his instagram that day I last heard from him, but not off of snap chat and just...
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    I Need Help and Comfort Please

    Hello, I just want to say that I understand your hurt and frustration at the moment. I just recently wrote a post on here called 'my AS boyfriend abandoned me' Except in my situation he completely disappeared without an explanation and wouldnt and still hasnt responded to any of my texts. I am...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Yes, I can see how he would feel relieved in a sense. He was telling me that he was annoyed and frustrated when I was expressing to him how I was struggling with not knowing where we stood. It would be nice to know at least if he still loved and cared for me since right now it feels like he...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    I agree that he does have a responsibility to reach out especially since we had all these plans for the near future, but I know deep down I will probably never hear from him again, and that is very painful, but like you said I have no control over it. But yes I do have some sympathy for him if...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Yes I can see now how I scared him off. I didnt mean to : ( I am not trying to sound insensitive or offensive but I have never dated someone AS, so I should have educated myself more. Too late now though.
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    I am in no way trying to offend anyone or be ignorant on the matter. I am just not informed and I am trying to understand better I guess. I guess If it were coming from a non-autistic man I would probably just assume he was a selfish cold jerk to be completely honest. I am terrified to text him...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    I guess I questioned too much and it frustrated him and now the care is gone. Its sad and it hurts but at least I understand a bit more. Thank you.
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Thank you for your reply and im glad this post is helping you. I did accuse him of being cold and heartless after the fact he ghosted me because thats how it feels to me, its hard for me to understand as an NT how someone can do that and not know how bad it hurts, and I even told him I was...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Thank you for the reply and yes it does help. And excuse any of my ignorance when it comes to this subject but I am just trying to understand better. When you said it kills any bit of caring you had for them...what happen? does it just disappear? Did you find it easy to fall out of love? This...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Yeah i dont remember him using the words feel too much. I'd have to look back and right now that would be too painful for me. Thanks I will look that up.
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    It's interesting you say that because I asked him about his previous relationships, he never really talked about it much but he did say they broke up and did not speak for 2 years after that and then they wound up becoming close friends. And no I am not waiting around for him to pop up, I...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Yes he works a lot, sometimes up to 80 hours a week, so I am sure he is consumed in that at the moment. It just felt so cold and cruel how he ended things, but I guess I am trying to understand it all and not just pin him as this heart less person.
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