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Recent content by Funkymunchkin

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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Thank you so much Mary for your kind words and very good advice. This and something Judge said on another break up thread really spoke to me. Judge's other piece of advice referred to the need for solitude. The break up came off the back of spending a lot more time together - in a hotel room/his...
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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Thank you, that's kind. I am sure I am meant to just walk away to heal and move on. I find that easier to say than do and I just wish I didn't miss him so much. I am so miserable without him and it's been 3 months now. I get panicky at the the thought that's it, we will never be in each other's...
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    Abandoned by AS boyfriend, is this common??

    Reading this thread has been enormously helpful despite making me so sad too. I have had such a similar experience to this. It's now been 3 months since he ended it totally out the blue after he seemingly woke up one day with intimacy issues which sent him into depression and not feeling good...
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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Well rather unexpectedly I had a message late last night, using his pet name for me, thanking me for my 'wonderful email' and saying he'd tried to reply but couldn't do it justice and that he was sorry. He said he was doing a lot better but from what he said that actually that seems because he's...
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    Can feelings change?

    I have had the same - my friends are just calling him rude words and saying he's not good enough for me, forget him, move on etc. In some respects I do think what he has done, well more the way he did it, was cowardly but because of the state he's in I also kind of get it too and just feel sad...
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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Thank you so much for your lovely words, they meant so much to me, especially as I've been going through such a tough time lately. I did end up contacting him. I felt we had been friends for so many years, and then together of course, ending it so abruptly on one phone call just seemed so...
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    Can feelings change?

    I was the same re the honeymoon period but put it down to the fact we knew each other so well for a long time (and joint close friends/family members) already but in retrospect... isn't that supposed to be classic avoidant style? It made him seem mega secure, until the avoidant kicked in :( I...
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    Can feelings change?

    I really feel for you reading this. My aspie ex recently ended it because he couldn't see us living together/having a future and what seems a total panic. He didn't want me not in his life but couldn't cope with a 'normal' future (so he tells me). The first 6 months together, his family and...
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    Is this really life with us?

    Just no no no! I am NT recently dumped by my Aspie ex so I have all the more reason to be negative and agree with the article but it's so wrong. It wasn't always plain sailing but he was a damn better man than the NTs I've dated or had a relationship with in my 42 years. Every relationship has...
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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Thank you all so much for taking the time to respond. I have written to him in an email that I've still not sent as if I do, it will allow him time to process. I appreciate the advice LucyPurrs. Ambi - happy birthday! Yes you're totally right that's what I'm asking. I guess I wonder if I'm...
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    Do I contact (recent) Aspie ex?

    Hi, My (now pretty sure aspie for oh so many reasons) now ex boyfriend ended it out the blue a few weeks ago after about 9 months together (and a long pre-existing friendship). He said it was triggered by our conversation not long before about our future plans (just ideas at this stage, one or...
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