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Recent content by DesolateImp96

  1. DesolateImp96

    Fear of Clear Instructions

    That happens to me too. People annoy me the the excess jibber jabber When I’m stressed , I can’t bring myself to ask for the simplest of things. At work (high stress) I struggle with conveying simple instructions , to the Point when I over word or over complicate it.
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    Stress of “Too much”, too much choice especially

    That happens to me too. For example I spent 10 minutes in the shampoo section at Walgreens just trying to make a choice lol. When you shop if it helps try to start small axe vs old spice and slowly add the other options like Irish spring if you aren’t happy with the first two Axe is better than...
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    Do you get stuck all day sometimes?

    Stone state? Could you elaborate on that please.
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    Learning to love your mistakes?

    After reading all of the responses it still feels alien to accept that we’re human. How long did it take for that rational to “sink in”
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    Learning to love your mistakes?

    Yes that’s 90% accurate to my mind. At work I feel like I’m in constant peril even though everyone else is looking “cool like a cucumber”
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    Learning to love your mistakes?

    please help me to understand this. When I start to think about my mistakes I get really anxious and my stomach feels like a dumbbell in my body.
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    Frustrated and lost

    Could you explain similass and similad please
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    Frustrated and lost

    Crap wasn’t finished. Should I make a new post or is it cool to talk about auto pilot?
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    Frustrated and lost

    Sorry have been busy with weekend plans and Monday work. Thank you both for those detailed responses...the level of nuance is ridiculous(in a good way) how do you manage to do it so fluidly? Also autopilot (
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    Frustrated and lost

    My bad. I misinterpreted that.
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    Frustrated and lost

    My ex gf jokes like that with me all the time. Its funny, sometimes the “joke” flys over my head
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    Frustrated and lost

    If I’m understanding this right. “Small talk” is key and by asking others for their input shows interest. Having a few general responses helps to make it easier. “Fake it til you make it” I’ve heard it from several people but it doesn’t make sense unless I’m thinking too into it *nervous laugh*
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    Frustrated and lost

    Both made sense =]
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    Frustrated and lost

    Thank you for rationalizing this. It helps ease my anxiety
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    Frustrated and lost

    It can be really difficult to remember that due to external stimuli interfering. Is there advice you have on remaining socially aware
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