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    Late diagnosed and turning 50

    Thank you all for your feedback. And Rachie, for the Old Testament link. Regardless of one’s religion, hopefully this thread can stay a bit for those of us around the 50 milestone.
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    Late diagnosed and turning 50

    Hi all :) I’m turning 50 soon. I became aware at 46 and was diagnosed at 48. So all of this came relatively, as a whirlwind. I feel like I’ve sorted out all the truths and falsehoods as best I can now, but 50 is a new barrier that is extra difficult for an autistic. Especially those who are...
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    Noise pollution of living in Town

    Get a ‘White Noise Machine’ if you haven’t tried one? They drown out noise and neutralize sounds to help you sleep better. I live in an area near several major highways and hospitals with emergency sirens and ‘Jake brakes’ noise going sometimes all day/night. I have two Dohm Classic white noise...
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    A recent health scare and a “change or you’ll die” talk from the doctor.

    Truly, vigorous exercise can be a major life-changer. We are all unique in our situations but I think that physical activity can make a tremendous difference for everyone. Walking a mile or so in your neighborhood is great, but getting into a more intense running regimen or gym cardio routine -...
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    Internet Connectivity Problem. Help Please

    A home router compatible with Starlink as your internet service provider (ISP) should run around $150. I wouldn't pay any above $200 USD or so. But make sure to get one endorsed by Starlink as compatible. Sometimes you may see one on Amazon, eBay or wherever claiming compatibility but may or may...
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    Hey Tony, have you ever tried Hiki? Dating app for autistics. Personally, I hate that stuff and...

    Hey Tony, have you ever tried Hiki? Dating app for autistics. Personally, I hate that stuff and would love nothing more than to get rid of my cell phone, but maybe it could help you meet a nice autistic girl? Maybe even having the same frustrations as you are. Hiki | Autism, ADHD...
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    I am Curious About Making Game Mods

    I ventured into Falskaar last week some 12 years since I last tried that (one of the most famous Skyrim mods of user-created content), and it corrupted my whole Skyrim install. Arrgh. Anyway, just glad to see another Dragonborn Aspie :) Good luck with the modding.
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    Lack of bone and muscular development

    Shevek - the hands are a bit smaller than normal but not that small. Its really from the elbow to the wrist. I don't draw attention to that but when wearing short-sleeves in warm weather, that's one of the first places someone sees, then draws their 2-minute NT conclusion on who you are. Misty...
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    Lack of bone and muscular development

    Seladon - grateful for your reply. "infantilised" - humbling but true. For both of our sakes, if anyone has any JAMA or other experience, feedback is nice.
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    Lack of bone and muscular development

    Hey all - I was diagnosed just this year in late middle age. I've dealt with the usual issues since; its been a mix of good and bad. My post here is about something I think is documented among autistics, but not that common. In the extensive research I've done, there isn't much on this. My...
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    How Long Was It Before You Were Diagnosed?

    For me, just over two years since I became aware in late 2021. I was diagnosed about two weeks ago in my late '40s. It didn't make much difference, or so it seemed. As I say, ask me in about 10 years because I've learned that these major life events, take time to sink in and be able to reflect...
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    Are a portion of people on the autism spectrum asexual? Asking due to my failed relationship

    According to this study: Sexual Orientation in Autism Spectrum Disorder - PubMed ... almost 70% of autistics self-report as "non-heterosexual". That can commonly be gay, but also asexual or other behaviors. Sometimes, even hyper-sexual. Many of us go through life either devoid of any sexual...
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    Mid 40's, good at masking -- any suggestions?

    To add to Judge's words - It's all "in the eye of the beholder"? marc_101 - you seem to be doing well, but we all have different "nuture" and "nature" variables leading us to our personal "here and now". Above all, keep your personal dignity. Stand tall and do not let academic authorities...
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