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Recent content by Dario Visconti

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    Anyone searching for specific patterns in girls?

    Could be possibly that. But that doesn't mean at the very least that I consider women as objects or things, in general.
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    Anyone searching for specific patterns in girls?

    You guys have absolute right in what you say and I don't disagree at all. But here's the thing, I don't choose romantic relationships according to the image but other things are important like communication and understanding. Besides, I won't usually approach women. What I describe is not...
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    Anyone searching for specific patterns in girls?

    This might sound crazy but, recently, I noticed something in me. I'm only attracted to girls that fit very specific criteria. Actually, I'm searching for patterns in their faces and their hair. That's a thing that could cause conflict in discussions with other people. They don't get it. To be...
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    What Are Your Biggest Burdens and Gifts of Having Asperger's Syndrome?

    Best things: 1) Obsessions for large parts of time with one thing. Might sound bad for some people but to me, it's amazing. I can actually self-teach myself things. E.g. I taught myself guitar (all teachers had failed in the past). Currently, I'm trying to teach myself Swedish. :) 2) Attention...
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    I'm an expert at flirting because...

    By "friendzoned" I don't mean it literally but by the meaning it has due to the constant usage of most women, I mean the most common line in history "I prefer we stay friends". We don't actually even do that, they just go away. And of course, I'm not anything like a womanizer at all. I only had...
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    At my wits end

    Understand that this is not for you. You might find it bad and unfair right now but if you stay in such a relationship and under the circumstances that you describe, it'll become much worse. Feeling lonely by yourself isn't the worst thing that can happen. Feeling lonely when surrounded by...
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    Things that people do that really annoy you

    The most annoying thing someone can do is keep telling me the same thing in order to change my opinion over something and just because they seldom do, they call me stubborn. For example, someone might call me to hang out and I turn the offer down and they keep telling me "Why not? Come on, we'll...
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    Can't Stand Being Supervised?

    It's annoying to be watched by someone and can't handle it, actually. But the worst thing that can happen is some supervisor be behind me while giving an exam test or something. I can't concentrate, I get frustrated and angry and I don't find it easy to return back to what I was doing or...
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    Do You Talk to Yourself?

    If I talk to myself? Only a lot! :P And actually I got used to it and don't find it embarassing. My brethern don't find it, too. Sometimes commenting on my work like "No, what are you doing there, erase it and start it over again!" or playing the devil's advocate in ideas that come to my mind...
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    I'm an expert at flirting because...

    Ereth, can you give any piece of advice of how to learn from mistakes and stop blurting out stuff that might bring us to a difficult situation and pass the event horizon of friendzoned? 'Cause seems to me that most NT women dislike honesty about the whims we have or the things we like. So...
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    New to this site

    Hello! Thanks a lot! I hope everything goes well, too!
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    Good sports for Aspies?

    I could recommend you swimming. Like someone said before, helps with depression. Helped me too. Twice! I pick up midday or late evening times where everyone's home and visit the Swim Center. Can't even stand it when it's crowded. Most of the time, won't remain there for more than a few minutes...
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    Is Selfishness an N.T. trait?

    I know. That's why I said that that all kinds of people exist in every place and under whatever label, meaning that human nature doesn't stand for a group over another, whether it's aspies and nts or blacks and whites.
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    Do you Really Have Friends???

    One very close friend from the same Department at the University, we met like 4 years ago. The kind of the guy that society labels as "weird", "loner" or even "loser", although NT. Trustful person that tries to understand my own "weird" way of thinking and acting. A little distant from others...
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    Is Selfishness an N.T. trait?

    People on the spectrum usually don't have the early initiation that NTs have into these things like selfishness, exploitation, bullying, thinking of profit and personal gain. And that's because they have more or less difficulties in their social skills, most commonly when early of age. Or maybe...
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