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Recent content by Dalana789

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    Neurodivergent marriage

    Thank you all for the tips and conversation. I definitely agree here.
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    My husband and I have different ideas about routine. For me, it's just checking the laundry basket every day and doing the laundry, checking the dirty dishes every day and putting them in the dishwasher, etc. That's routine. For my husband, routine is doing the laundry every day at 7:30 PM. But...
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    I am not just saying this for nothing. In the past, I had obsessive-compulsive depression. Panic attacks, schizoid behavior, taking the strongest tranquilizers and antidepressants. Now only anxiety disorder remains. At one point, a doctor told me that no pills in the world will save you if you...
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    And I think that all these are excuses and not explanations. After all, ADHD and Asperger's are a well-studied thing and methods that allow you to live fully in a family are also known.
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    That's exactly what he says
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    I don't really like presents myself, and I don't like fresh flowers. The most important thing for me is understanding that a person has done something for you, even if it's just getting out of bed when he didn't want to, but for you. On one of my birthdays, I asked him (he hasn't done surprises...
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    I want exactly the same thing as you: when a husband and wife complement each other and become one. But we have nothing but denials and an absolute lack of faith in anything other than ourselves. Whether an autistic person or someone else, you can always find a compromise, but only when both...
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    Yes, he works. He has almost no responsibilities, except for walking the dog, and even then, he sometimes forgets to pour water and put out food. I also manage the finances, although for several years he did this, but it was bad. He goes into complete denial day after day. His addiction to...
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    Yes, but how to deal with this? There are ways, aren't there? Or is it all useless? How can we live together if everything is on me? Children, finances, dog, planning, etc.
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    We tried EVERYTHING: lists, boards, stickers at home on objects and sticky notes with actions that we need to remember, he has a list of everything that I and the child love on his phone, he has reminders, he has a bunch of programs on his phone with reminders. I try to write everything, not...
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    Neurodivergent marriage

    Hello everyone! I would like to get advice from neurodivergent people :) I am a neurotypical wife and my husband has ADHD and Asperger's syndrome. For many years now, we have been having constant disagreements in the family. My husband has always been strange, but no one paid attention to this...
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