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Recent content by CupcakeQueen

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    The Stigma of Self-Diagnosis

    well ive never heard those things said to anyone but im sure people have encountered that. i can admit to being wary of self-diagnoses because i wonder how reliable they are, but the same could be said about psychologists overdiagnosing a particular condition as well. besides, who are other...
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    Being Completely Honest...

    being an aspie is hard as a teenager...i didnt even know about my diagnosis until i was 18 so had no idea why i was so different.
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    SIBLING ISSUES - DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR SIBLING??

    im the youngest of three with two older brothers (both NT). i love them both and am grateful to have grown up with them. as kids, i generally got along with my oldest brother but used to fight a lot with my other brother. i got mad at him because he would tease me and deliberately did things to...
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    Do you like driving?

    yes, i generally like driving. sure, i get nervous sometimes but i enjoy cruising along and listening to music
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    Sensitive Topic Are Aspies prone to be emotionally abused?

    the answer is simple...only if we allow ourselves to be. having aspergers doesn't cause people to emotionally abuse you in and of itself....people treat you how you allow them to treat you.
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    Need advice- aspie roommate and her bf

    Hi, I wanted to start off by saying not all asperger's get obsessed with their partner or crush. I would have ended it after a month of him not meeting me because i know that if a guy really wants to see you, he'll make time. I know when a guy isn't very interested and I accept it and move on...
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    Hello I am new

    you're welcome :) im a 23-year old who just graduated college but i wasnt very motivated in high school either. id be happy to talk more about ways to help your son navigate his future!
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    Hello I am new

    For your son, i would suggest researching colleges that have good computer science programs. try to engage him in what exactly he wants to do with computer science and maybe try to find people who have recently graduated college and started working in the fields hes interested in. many teenagers...
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    having second thoughts about being engaged to an aspie guy

    trust is an important part of a relationship and if you don't feel like you trust someone, i dont see a good marriage ever coming out of it. if you don't want to break up with him just over a few white lies id recommend getting counseling to address his lack of effort in the relationship. it is...
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    Hello!

    Hello, i am a 23-year old female with aspergers and joined this network to talk to others like me about challenges in life!
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    Autism/AS - NT love, is it possible?

    well you need to stop projecting your past experiences with women onto new ones u meet. i understand how hard it is to let go of bad memories but you are ruining your chances with potentially nice and accepting women. i dont know types are the 'females you want' but you may be focusing too much...
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    Trying to handle an obsession with relationships

    its good that you recognize that u arent ready for a relationship...im sure it was hard to cut off female friends. why dont u try making/hanging out with male friends more often than female friends. i think too much female companionship tempts u to start thinking of relationships again. id say...
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