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Recent content by captivepulse

  1. captivepulse

    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    Just an update on this situation: They continued to talk as often as they wanted and she did, in fact, start to flirt with him...even after swearing to me on the phone that she had no interest in him what-so-ever. :) Females....
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    It is really unfortunate that this is happening. He always tells me that I am the first person he has ever met where he can be around me all the time and not feel drained and like he needs a constant break because of his Aspergers. We get along so well and have never had a fight. I just feel...
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    The way he handled the situation with the girl that wanted to send him naked pictures is what made me uneasy. His reaction to it was, "Mmm, my gf would kill me lol, but why do you ask?" Because she said to him, "do you love me enough to look at naked pics of me?" And their convo continued. He...
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    Wow! Never expected this many replies, thank you all so much, this has become a great debate. I think everyone is torn because of values and maybe past experiences, I am not sure. Maybe a little background on myself and my bf would help as well. For one, yes I have some insecurities from being...
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    I am trying to be fair, that is why I am here to ask. :) It's good to hear other perspectives. And you are right, if it happens, then screw them. I just wish she would respect our relationship the same if I am to respect theirs.
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    Yes, but when I speak with them I involve my bf. I do not text them every single day either.
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    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    As much as people like to think to have a friend of the opposite sex is the same, it just is not to me and the reason is because there is the possibility there.
  8. captivepulse

    Aspie boyfriend and his female friend

    Hello all, I am looking for some much-needed advice! My aspie bf and I have been together for 8 months now and he has a female friend that he has known for 12 years. At the beginning of our relationship, she was not around much because she was married. Recently, about a month or so ago, she...
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    Struggles with Aspie bf

    Thank you all for the replies! :) We were not able to see the therapist after all, but I think we will be fine until he gets his insurance figured out. We have decided that he should take a break and spend a night at his mother's house as nobody is going to be there. I still feel a little...
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    Struggles with Aspie bf

    Hello all! I found this site after trying to research Aspergers to maybe help better understand my boyfriend and possibly resolve issues we are having. We both love each other a lot, but recently he has gotten a new job and he is starting to become overwhelmed. He has a hard time separating...
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