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    Words that cannot be said

    Still no contact, im so upset.
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    Words that cannot be said

    Thank you Gerontius. I dont believe he is being immoral or emotionally abusive, but I guess that is open to interpretation. I haven't heard from him since Tuesday when I left his apartment, not a single message, feeling so sad and desperate. The silent treatment is just the worst for me.
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    thank you :-)

    thank you :-)
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    Words that cannot be said

    It is :( I realise now that im still asking the very same questions I was asking back then. Thank you for all the responses. Its really interesting to hear your thoughts. And I have to admit that each and every 2 cents input Ive received makes complete sense. I am constantly asking for more...
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    Words that cannot be said

    @tree, I actually meant that I'm not trying to change the 'status' of our relationship, i'm just genuinely confused as to why he is so clearcut about things that are impossible to predict. But you are right - I was trying to get him to do something for me by changing his behaviour about birthdays
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    Words that cannot be said

    you're right, it wasn't even conscious though which is scary he doesnt really come to see me as he doesn't like travelling
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    Words that cannot be said

    Oh thats such good advice, thank you so much Aspychata. Im not even trying to change anything - I guess I just want reassurance....:(
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    Words that cannot be said

    Kind of agree with you Aspychata, I couldn't do 24/7 either, I guess I just wanted to know (want to know) whether he can see a future with me
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    Words that cannot be said

    Thanks @tree. I think you’re probably right. Can you relate to that feeling of wanting to protecting yourself in that way?
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    Words that cannot be said

    Hi all I just wanted to reach out to the group again to get your point of view on something that has caused me some hurt in my nearly 4 year relationship with a wonderful aspie man. I know he loves me, I can see it and feel it - so there is no doubt there. Yet when I sometimes ask him "Will we...
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    Please help, relationship advice

    How is it going sammw? Did the two of you work things out? its a late response, but i sense she comes back to you because she really loves you too. Hope it worked out
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    Please can you show me more affection?

    thank you @Els, @Aspychata and @Matthias. @Aspychata especially, I have listened to a lot of your advice over the years... @Els, I do definitely understand the limitations of simply being clear with 'instructions', but I can't mind read so I just want to be sure that my thoughts are at least...
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    Please can you show me more affection?

    Thank you :):)
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    Please can you show me more affection?

    Thank you Els What if I asked, please could you: - not raise your voice/shout at me - don't ignore me when you're upset about something unrelated to me - plan to see me in advance - let me know when you're busy so I can understand your silence Are those requests clear? Or also ambiguous?
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    Please can you show me more affection?

    If you were asked by your partner to "please show me more affection", would this be a clear request to you? Would you understand how to act upon it?
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