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Recent content by Bikeman94

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    Crush on fellow aspie

    WWell I hope there's a chance she and I can at least give it a try. I hope i didnt scare her away for good. I am realizing that she is functioning at a lower maturity level than me in some ways. She doesn't seem to understand that certain things she says are hurtful even even when it is...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    I will say her staff person talked to me after the girl was done apologizing the staff member and I talked a little more, because she went to the other room. I expressed my concern that I made her uncomfortable to which the staff replied that she's promises I did not make her uncomfortable and...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Well where it gets tricky is I'm the only one she even sort of talks to there besides the staff. I don't know if I'm comfortable asking the staff to help with that especially after my mentor also saying that he prefers his clients don't date other clients but also made it sound like he doesn't...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Yeah I'm really really trying not to make her uncomfortable I care a lot about her as a person even beyond if there's going to be a relationship or not. I've been in the situation where I was the 20-year-old being hit on by almost 30-year-olds at the same place so there's also that and because...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    The mentor is also all over the place he is very dramatic and he told me three different things in the course of 15 minutes the first being that she's horrible and rude and that she makes everybody uncomfortable because she clearly hates being there so much and then he said that I should...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    The part that makes all of this so hard is everyone I've asked for advice thus far including p people that know her have said that I am not making her uncomfortable in any way but my gut tells me I am. However my gut feelings are not always reliable so I'm just not sure whats going on, as...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    If I came on too strong I definitely didn't mean to, I've been trying to take it slow as well and get to know her I definitely was not trying to come on strong and I wasn't aware that my crush was so obvious
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    Crush on fellow aspie

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    Crush on fellow aspie

    I am open to being in whatever type of relationship I agree I am very open to options it does not have to be a "conventional" realtionship. I'd like to get to know her as a friend first to be honest too Yeah I think I do understand her better already now that I realize it's just hard because...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Also I love your analogy about the black holes and the spiders
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Yeah yeah and I also made it like 20 times worse by apologizing to her constantly because I didn't realize she was having a meltdown I have severe social anxiety and I thought she was just being mean. She actually did apologize too her and her mentor took a walk and when they came back they...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Thank you for the welcome sorry about the lack of paragraphs I had to type it out in a blank text on my phone because my browser app kept crashing Yeah I've been using pretty good hygiene all along it seems like everything was going well it was just the day with the pizza the most recent time...
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Thank you for the welcome sorry about the lack of paragraphs I had to type it out in a blank text on my phone because my browser app kept crashing
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    Crush on fellow aspie

    Hi all, I was wondering if you guys can help me figure out a situation I'm dealing with. Basically I attend a local agency that provides assistance to disabled individuals in the community recently the agency move to a new office with plenty of space for recreational activities and socializing...
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