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Recent content by Arbust

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    On disability

    So, his therapist is reinforcing his ideas that all the poor behavior is ASD and that he just needs a high level of support because of this. I have seen very similar behavior with 2 other ASD adults I know. Absolutely no boundaries about expecting other people to endlessly help.
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    On disability

    I'm not an aristocrat. during the 1990's many homes in the USA were built with a very high ceiling in the entry way and living room the stairs are visible. Not great because heat gets trapped.
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    Comment by 'Arbust' in 'Special Qualification Courses for ASD before Marriage is highly needed?'

    My spouse masked all kinds of behavior before we got married. He has flat out said so, "how else would I have gotten you to marry me?" Now the big thing that caused me to be deceived was my only sibling died suddenly not long after we started dating. Most of my friends didn't know how to be...
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    On disability

    His assessment shows some Borderline Personality traits. I know he was abused by his mother and has only brought it up in therapy once.
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    On disability

    Do you expect her to fix a leaking 14 foot high ceiling 3 weeks after surgery and make you diner too?
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    On disability

    Yes , I got him to got to get an assessment last year it took 6 hours and cost a lot . It was done by a specialist, who has a PhD.
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    On disability

    I’m an NT married to a high functioning aspie. Sorry to keep saying I , so I’ve had 12 surgeries over the last decade including having a spinal cord stimulator implant for nerve damage the causes me excruciating pain. My spouse doesn’t help me post op and leaves heavy chores up to me. I’m...
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