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Recent content by alillostntdp

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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    Thanks for calling me on my crap Streetwise :) You are right, strong and independent does not mean heartless <3
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    I have to learn to not be so focused on ‘myself’ and how ‘I’ need to communicate and learn to make allowances for how Mr AS is trying to communicate his love and care to me. Seems not so revolutionary, actually seems like something I should have learned twenty some years ago...in dealing with...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    “particularly if he has found over the years that people often say one thing and mean something at least not quite the same” so he doesn’t make “promises” your input is so valuable, you have such a way of explaining it to me, thank you
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    It’s just that Mr AS seems to struggle with putting this into words...he says he is a physical person but we are currently in long distance most of the time, which is suitable at this stage, again we are still learning each other and building a wonderful friendship, we just know we are getting...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    Yes Lucy! Thanks for drawing me back to that! I am reading back over things because I am buzzing with information. Thank goodness Mr AS is without WiFi for a weekend and I have time to quietly research and read. But back to this quote...part of my take away...what am I not getting? I’m not...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    I do have to step away from all the chaos behaviors learned in the past...that’s where his wise quote the other day niggled into my brain like a worm and sat there all day “maybe you are so used to fighting and surviving in chaos that you do not know how to live in peace” ... I can no longer say...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    AO1501 am I looking for expressions of love through actions rather than words? I think that is the first big difference I am noticing...I am a natural writer and lover of words and part of our communication is by text and I can pour myself out on to a page, which does not fair well for him at...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    I know George. What your saying makes perfectly logical sense, except how do I know it’s true love if I don’t explore it a bit further and to do so I need to understand how to communicate better with him. Yes, as tough as I am, I have all the bleeding heart characteristics of an empath, one who...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    oh George, you are scaring me...does it help that I am tough? Like incredibly so...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    Thanks for the tip on the search box on forum, I am still learning to navigate this site, I am entirely new to forums and chat rooms and yes, I know how absurd that sounds
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    You cannot imagine how encouraging this is, thanks for taking the time with this reply...I am just starting out on a knowledge seeking journey but just hearing this little bit helps...I believe it helps that I am an introvert and value my own recharge, quiet time and we can separate and do our...
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    this man AS puts me at peace...seeking knowledge

    I am a NT female who recently reconnected with a childhood friend, he was diagnosed AS in adulthood, says he tested above borderline...we are enjoying reconnecting and creating a meaningful friendship, I cannot describe the peace he gives me, in conversation, with eye contact, his straight...
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