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Recent content by 123Timmeti456

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    you are not. I am not asking for answer, I am asking for advice.
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    Again, thank you! I want to underline that I in no way want him to be obsessed with me. I think he was initially, but the seasons for one of his special interests began in the middle of us dating, and the obsession towards me faded. I asked about obsession because I wonder if, when they do...
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    Thank you for your reply. And WOW, what an awesome mother you are. I am impressed by your insight and understanding of your son and his diagnosis. Your son is lucky to have you as a mother. I really appreciate you sharing this. It provides me with important insight. In many ways he sounds like...
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    It seems like the fear of "coming across as pushy" is a phenomenon for all of us. This is what I am struggling most with right now. What I find strange is the change in intenseness. I suspect I was his obsession in the beginning, and that this might have faded after a while. Therefore, I have...
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    Thank you for your reply! I understand that being hurt makes it difficult to let people into your life. I think I am responsible for hurt here, but it has been unintentionally. Often a reaction to what I have interpreted as him hurting me. I see how cleaning up messes from broken relationships...
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    From my (still limited) research on aspergers, I Have read about the points you make here. However, I have some difficulty understanding what you mean about "understand how I feel". Does this mean that you have trouble identifying concepts such as love? Or what does it mean in practice? I agree...
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    Yes, I was also confused, and hurt by the "stop being so in love" part. I think he meant it, and I think in his head it is because he feels like I dont want to move to the place he wants to live. However, this is a strange line of thought 1) since it is way to early to make that decision and 2)...
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    We last saw each other in just over a month ago. I talked to him for the first time since the incident, two weeks ago. He seemed really happy that I reached out, and we had a long, pleasant conversation over text. He expressed concern over losing contact when we broke up. I decided I wanted to...
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    Oh my god, I don't know how to express how thankful I am for your reply. Thank you for taking the time. Your reply is so sympathetic and kind, and also well formulated and informative <3 I agree with your statement about readiness for a relationship. That is also one of the reasons I was so...
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    Yes, I have noticed the pattern as well. Thank you for your sympathies. <3 And for your answer and advice.
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    For more context: he told me several times that he never felt this way with anyone. He was very physical with me, and held me really tight all the time. Also something he said he never did with anyone before. I noticed he had issues with light touching, so I never did this to him. I don't doubt...
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    Hi, This is my first time posting, in any forum ever. I appreciate advice from anyone, as I do realize that a lot of what I am asking is very general, and not necessarily tied to his condition. English is not my first language, so sorry for any typos, and if any clarification is needed, please...
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