I'm a 22 year old college senior. I'm double majoring in Spanish and Creative Writing. I didn't get diagnosed with Asperger's until I was 19, and so I've been trying to rush through learning social skills over the past few years, trying to catch up with peers who either aren't on the spectrum or who are diagnosed when they are younger. I've also struggled with depression and self-harm. In my blog, I'm going to focus on trying to figure out my identity. I'm going to talk about my social life, including this girl I have a crush on (ah, yes, always a girl), and, to a lesser extent, my career prospects. I'm struggling to figure out who I am because I believe that the most important part of my future is going to be a romantic relationship (have never been in one), however, I know that I can't base my identity solely on other people.