hello.. i'm here because i love someone, and i want to be there for them

[kkforss]

hello to anyone who sees this. i have been looking at this page for a few days now. honestly i wasn't sure how to do everything.
but i know that i need some insight/support/ideas/help. the woman i have been in love with for many years, has a teenage son with aspies. he is fantastic and i love him very much too. he is going through some very tough times right now. i see his struggle and i see his struggle through her eyes. i see the pain she goes through and how much it takes out of her. i feel very helpless. i would do anything for either of them. of course when he feels stress, he doesnt want to talk with me. and i understand that, but she pulls away then too. it's so hard to love them both and then not be able to do anything to help, when they are hurting the most.
so i guess that is one of the reasons i am seeking everyone and anyone out. the other big reason is anything anyone might know about aspies support in WI and the green bay area. we are getting so little help from the school system.
thank you to anyone who sees this or has any ideas. and thank you, i guess i needed to vent alittle bit there.