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Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Enzo can only mean one thing!!!! YOURE BACK!
Luca
Luca
Hopefully more than temporarily! Love the enthusiasm, haha. I've missed you! Hope you're well!
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Changed a bit, but I'm not able to get into my old email account so I was unable to keep up. Lost my fiancee, lost my job, ended up with much better jobs and no fiancee which is fine. Have 2 cats and live with a friend.
Luca
Luca
I was wondering what happened to you! Last time I heard from you was August, I think.
Sorry to hear things haven't been going so well :( Always here if you need to talk.
Luca
Luca
Great to hear about the new job though!
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
No it's been great! Honestly! The reason I was depressed was chemicals. My body makes testosterone it can't seem to use. I ditched the T and ended up accidentally forcing myself to cross over.
Luca
Luca
I'm so happy for you! That's amazing!! Are you going by Hazel now?
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Thought I was a dude. Wouldn't in a hundred years have suspected I was one of those transgender folks.
Since I look relatively mannish I play that to my advantage and got a fine job in a steel plant where I run the machines.
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Going to have to. I make an ugly woman but I look even more unconvincing dressed as a man.
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Adopted some cats, got a new secondhand car, and one of my friends (also asexual and androgyne) and I are living happily and working hard everyday
Luca
Luca
It happens lol. I spent years convinced that I was straight, then convinced that I was nonbinary, then convinced that I was a lesbian... turns out I'm just a bi woman who had a lot of stuff to work out with myself. Oddly enough my partner (who is gonna be my husband in 21 days, so I'll just say husband) is also bi, and struggled with a lot of the same stuff growing up.
Luca
Luca
Super cool to hear about your job! That is awesome. I also have a "masculine" blue collar job- I work in construction, and on a produce farm.
Glad you have a roommate/friend and some cats. I also have two cats now! And geese, and chickens.
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
Aw great you got a husband!!! How cool is that, and for sure if he likes you he's probably chill with animals.
Hell yeah
I ran a coworker out of the shop with a wrench because he sexually harassed me. Too easy in these jobs. Mess with me, I hit you. End of discussion! Bad hillbillies get The Wrench.
Luca
Luca
He's wonderful. And yes, he loves animals, and they love him! He has the sweetest, gentlest personality. Which is hilarious because his special interest is hockey and he is a very aggressive hockey player and loves to talk trash. Lol
Luca
Luca
That is him in my profile pic btw. I'm on the left, he is on the right. Of course I'd end up with a tall guy lol
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