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Slime_Punk
Oh my god. Are you serious? That is the most heartbreaking thing imaginable :(
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Luca
Yes, I’m serious, unfortunately :(
I’m going to be so lonely :(
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
I'm sorry it ended this way. I was hoping it was going to last indefinitely. Dog V4 sends a huge hug.
Kisa the tea
Kisa the tea
I don't know what to say. That's so hard to deal with. Sending hugs.
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Slime_Punk
Is there any way to convince her to stay or something? I was in a similar situation once, that's such an awful feeling :(
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Luca
I don’t want to try to convince her to stay, that wouldn’t be fair to her family. I just don’t know what to do.
Aspychata
Aspychata
Are you two going to stay in touch, so sad today, l was happy that part of your life was going well. Maybe they will return to US at a later date? I know the feeling, Luca- that's a huge reason l am moving back with someone, because l feel preyed upon, and targeted because l am single. Know exactly where you are coming from.
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Luca
Of course we’re going to stay in touch. It doesn’t mean the relationship has to end. I’m just so scared of being lonely and this has already been one of the worst weeks I’ve had in a long time.
Aspychata
Aspychata
Fate is so cruel, you just didn't need this at this junction. I feel like just screaming right now, l felt l had a chance too, your life was on track. You need to maybe FaceTime so she still is in your life daily, and discuss a return date? I meant that my life situation would also get better with my partner. He is showing some signs of slowing down, so it hurts inside.
All-Rounder
All-Rounder
That's sad, I'm sorry. Over the last weeks I've seen you have a lot of fun with your new gf and I can tell it wasn't nearly enough time, but I guess it never would be. A long distance relationship will be different, I wish you good luck in managing the distance and communication. It can be fun and fulfilling, I wish you strength.
All-Rounder
All-Rounder
I think that her family decision is very much imposing on her having to go with them now. I can imagine being left behind would be scary and having to go later. Could you visit her in the case she would be afraid to or something? Or could you have a travel with friends to Poland?

Does her family know of your relationship and do they have anything against it?
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